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Spent over a year with my LDR so far
| Wholesome, we're going on 3 years in our ldr, going to meet for the first time in the next 6 months probably around my birthday
| Congrats OP!
| Ldr is fucking cursed
| ^ this so much
| >>990335 >>990338 Grow the fuck up. Most people meet over the internet nowadays. That you're unable to is a judgment of your character, and I wish for the sake of prospective partners that this trend continues.
| ^ this so much
| I hope you are happy. I started talking to a guy online a month ago and I love him, he's the only one who makes me feel at ease. I haven't asked him out because we don't live in the same country, but stories like this give me hope.
| ldr sounds nice but idk how i would commit to a relationship online
| I couldn't do it, but all the more power to those who can. Wishing you well, g/u/rl!!!
| >>990357 lmao, the whole point of meeting over the internet is to find someone who you are able to then meet IRL. If you keep your LDR long enough, it's really sad for you.
| ^ this so much
| >>990537
When was the last time you got an sms from a woman who wanted to hang out? Never? Color me suprised, lol.
| Long distance selects for a certain type of person, a little off but ain't nothing wrong with that. Homeschooled vibes.
Anyone who says otherwise will probably die alone or is oblivious to how much of a pest they are to the people around them.
>Or they are a big meanie who needs their ass churned out >.<
let people fuck and be happy.
| LDR will never be real relationships
| ^ this so much
| LDR made me realize how crazy bitches can get
I once had a french ex and she kept insisting for me to not hang out with my friends so i can sext her
| I lost a friend because of me freaking out over her LDR, granted she was super lovey dovey about it and it was real fucking annoying.
| >>990357 Kinda uncalled for tbh, people have different needs. I could probably maintain an LDR if I absolutely had to but the physical aspect of relationships is really important to a lot of people. I know I'd have trouble if I had to go months without it from my partner. If you don't find that as important, well good for you.
| >>991005 That's real cool, but none of your post makes clicking on OP's thread just to invalidate her relationship any less childish.
| Humans should isolate and not seek relationships
| ^ this so much
| Yikes, some people here need get out more.
OP, I'm happy for you. Whatever kind of gremlin saying LDR are bad is either envious or just sad they couldn't hope to get to your level.
| Congrats!! The more love the better <3
LDR is rough, but I respect it ngl. While yeah it's not the same as irl, imo it requires way more dedication and strength. If I'm away from my gurl for just a week I become an insanity lol, so AN ENTIRE YEAR??? You're a soldier g/u/rl
I wish you two the best!!
| >>991461 nah me and my bf have been in an LDR for over two years now, we often visit each other and are planning to get married, buy a house and move in together. it just sounds like youre an impatient crybaby with commitment problems :3
| >>991555 baby u one of those schizo ass control freaks for sure, i couldn't stand being around yo cynical ass all day lmao. go post some burgs, maybe youll feel better?
| It's definitely become a more common thing, it's just easier to meet people when you aren't constrained to the area you live in, especially when the area you live in doesn't align with yourself or your ideals at all. Just met someone myself a little over a month ago and I love her so much.
| ^ this so much
| ^ so not this
| ^ updooted
| LDR never works because in order for it to move forward one will need to uproot their lives for a chance of everything to work out.
| Even then one could move and uproot and then be completely stuck because turns out that person is a shitter in reality
| >>992222
G/u/rl, who hurt you? You're singlehandedly keeping this thread alive and I'm starting to feel bad for you lol
| ^ this so much
| I am an e4b6dd fan
| >>992270
Go outside. Touch stones. Touch grass. Watch clouds. Hold shift to sprint. Do exercises. Get strawberry icecream. Listen to birds. Get the fuck up from el computador and do something.
| >>991484 sooo this is the tricky part. I reckon you have to live together for some time, like, a year, in order to realise whether you really should get married or not
| >>992242 fun part is that right now the thread is divided by approximately 50/50 between ppl who are pro- and anti-LDR)))))))
| It's a bad idea because if it doesn't work one person gets fucked over for no real gain but all the harm
| >>992314 me when i talk out of my ass (whats more with no profit incentive)
If an LDR doesnt work thats literally the same as a regular relationship not working, and really most of those dont, because westoids only care abt the social label that comes with being in a relationship rather than the actual relationship theyre in
Dating culture messed yall up bad, just find someone you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, it's literally that ez
| This thread is so funny
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| Hey g/u/rls, back in June I talked about being in an LDR. And that was some time after I talked about a previous crush. Thought I should share an update!
My relationship w/ my girlfriend has lasted over a year so far. We talk like we're already married, and every week I cry tears of joy or sadness. There's no in-between with me, I love her so much. The long distance makes it painful, but I've felt alive since loving her. I would even say I fell in love even before our first date.