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i hate being lonely
| Stop it
| i might be "scared" to make friends. i don't know how to put it.
i post on many forums. both anonymous and ones with accounts. i guess i have "acquaintances". but it's all so restricting. this is probably one of the bad things about being overly private.
| i want to be apart of something but i don't see that happening any time soon. but again. the restrictions i place on myself. it's like a wall. it's all my own doing. shit sucks.
| Stop being a bitch
| I can empathise with you, OP. Being constantly online may hinder you from making real connections tbh. I was way happier when I had good friends and din't use the PC so much but a toxic breakup(she's a great person, just a bad breaker-upper) and the pandemic isolation made me lonely too. I still have friends and acquaintances but I still feel lonely because we don't vibe. We don't have enough in common to have real conversations, for example. It's all very superficial.
| No matter what's going on right now, I'm glad I get to share this wonderful website with you OP. *headpats*
| people irl are pretty neat but its hard to find a good reason to break the ice. i found a good way is to cold approach them with the most ridiculous shit, like hey bro come skydiving with me, and then go oh, well, want to play video games together instead? once they turn it down. actual negotiating tactics, fuck my face why do we need this
people online don't really get into relationships unless they're the kind of people who should not be in relationships.
| tbf, two of my partners i'd met online and moved in with and we're vibing, but that was after scouring through so many fuckboys i could personally double the population of new jersey with them
anyway yeah uh, go to a walmart and chat up the greeters i guess what the fuck can go wrong g/u/rl
| you'd be more successful finding friends outside with your shared interests. whenever you close the computer, all of your online friends die (or so the girl in MOABOM thinks)
| OP here, should clarify that I haven't had online friends in years. and i'm not even socially inept. when i need to talk, i talk. when i need to interact with someone, i interact. it's just having nothing.
| Dude, this is the problem of the modern introvert. We have driven ourselves into phones and the Internet, I have forgotten how to communicate with my voice, I only write messages.(if im not drunk)
How to find friends in the Internet world? It's really hard.
I was lucky to find a woman with whom I play games and drink beer online sometimes. At the same time, in reality I havent friends, I only have work..And this often makes me sad
| By the way, if you live alone for years, it will become more and more difficult for you to get along with someone. After 10 years, you simply can’t imagine anyone with you.
What can I say, my former classmate has not been able to give me a gift for my birthday for five months now. I'm always..."Busy". Eh..im shit
| they wanted to give you a bday gift so they care about you more than your coworkers do
| If it gets bad enough you'll force yourself to socialize and you might get lucky. Get a part time job with a lot downtime with coworkers. Train your social bone.
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| not on any doomer shit, but i gotta say
yeah. it's getting to me now.