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i need some advice
| Who are you? You or your mum?
Your life is up to you. If the love is real, fight for it.
| If you care about each other that much then wait four years. If you can't do that then enjoy prison you suck fuck.
| Dude she is still 14 she her self is going through a phase in that age and having a straight up relation ship in that age is really not healthy for her mental growth
| >>93486 as this guy said if your so cock sure that its not just her having a crush or going through puberty for her to "love" you and you think it's true love at that age then wait till she is 18(honestly I would suggest 20+ cus people start thinking more sensibly and somewhat long term at that age)
| Till then I would suggest you listen to your mom and cut all ties with her until she is of age (not cus of sex or whatever but cus she can start thinking with the right mindset about things).this may also be more healthy for your "relationship" cus chances are if you reconnect with her when she comes of age your relationship may stay somewhat fresher in the sense that you haven't stayed tgt long enuf to maybe drive each other away
| But of course if you still want to listen to your heart that ouh iz tru luv and shit than I suggest you visit a straight up psychologist or a relationship councillor to explain to you why this won't work. Even after all of this you ignore everything and still go ahead then there is a incredible chance of you messing up her mind with relationship gaggoo at that age
| Ps try to end it off very calmly and shit or as soft as possible cus idk girls in that age start believing stupid shit and might cut themselves and what not (not neccessarily true at all but I have seen a rare few cases).that's why I suggest bringing both you and the girl to the relationship councillor of some sort to explain to both of you so that she herself will hopefully understand and with the best chance she won't do anything stupid
| You can tell your mom this and she will probably understand your care for her and allow you to get this understanding business done to end this thing
| Hopefully this helped and you need to consider and understand both of your situations in this case very carefully gud luck and pls do the right thing by ending this thing (at least temporarily)
| The age difference really isn't much though...
| I mean you guys probably met at school, I know once you graduate things become a little complicated... I myself see nothing wrong buy you know society and shit, I guess the best choice really is to just wait a couple of years. Don't have to cut ties with her or anything... Do what you must mate, whatever you choose I'd recommend you refrain from sex,atleast until yall both out of school and have your shit sorted, just because underage sex stories always end well.
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| i feel like drinking but i know it wont help it at all.
My old girlfriend is 14 yet im 18 we've shared special moments together and i even told her im in love with her. my mother found out we've been dating she told me im to cut all ties with her due to her age.
but i really love her and i told her i love her.... thats a big thing to say to me.