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Growing self-confidence
| Wear a suit. Doesnt matter if you’re a g/u/rl or a d/u/de wear something that makes you feel like god. Learn a skill and get good. Gaming or fishing. Ive never met a fisher who had trouble with self confidence. He was in a suit. He had endless confidence.
| Go to a garden . Plant confidence seeds . Watch them grow
| >>785645 Can confirm the clothing thing, suit or otherwise. How you dress makes a huge difference.
Generally, what I do depends on the day. On real bad days, when confidence is out of reach, I settle for comfort. If I feel like I can't do things alone, I listen to streams, or podcasts, or music to keep me company so I don't feel *as* alone at least.
Other than that... again, >>785645 is right. Get good at *something*. That confidence translates.
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| I have some internet friends.
When they're not online, I feel very vulnerable. This happens every day because my friends are in the US and I'm not (10 hour timezone difference!!)
I feel this is because I don't trust myself to be able to face the world on my own, which is objectively false but emotions don't care for facts.
Have any of you g/u/rls experienced this before? What did you do to become more confident or self-assured?