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How to get over a break up
| Throw yourself into work. Force yourself to keep working until you stop thinking about your ex. Do NOT seek other relationships to fill the void!!
>t. being discarded pro
| Do more things for yourself!! Like buy something you really want to have! Or Give yourself more time to enjoy your hobbies/play videogames!
| Have sex and have fun.
| >>785148 i just quit my job because it really drained my health mentally. I didn't expect him to leave along with it. I'm literally on rock bottom orz
| start doing things that occupy your brain and block the bad thoughts, i don't recommend hitting up on random girls up because It will feel weird (at least for me). try doing exercises, playing vidya or making things that will help you in the long run, like learning something new. idk why did you broke up, but keep in your head that from now on you have to focus on you, life is more than just relationships. cheer up king
| >>785178 Work does not mean job specifically. Consider>>c59e05 >>dc11eb -- keep your hands and mind occupied and you won't have time to suffer the effects of a breakup.
If you're really out of it and don't have the mind to figure out what to do, grab a coloring book or a nonogram (https://www.nonograms.org/).
Remember that you deserve to be happy, g/u/rl. You'll get through this.
| Creative work/hobbies are excellent for distraction, coping and expression. Normal entertainment like vidya, shows, movies, books and that kinda stuff can help for a bit. Talking with (and if possible despite COVID) hanging out in person with friends can be good.
Maybe have a day out just for you, you feel? No goal or anything. Just dress up nice and go find something, alone or with a friend.
And of course if you're blaming yourself, then don't. Shit happens. Everything ain't you.
| It's not easy, I'm going through similar right now actually. My gf of 2 years ended up cheating on me recently because she stopped properly communicating with me sadly. I tried to still make it work but she just broke my trust so bad and still just goes behind my back and doesn't respect things that make me upset. She doesn't seem to want to make it work so I said we are taking a break.
I'm super sorry to hear you're having troubles too but we will both make it out alright <3
| I think just keeping on living authentically works best. Try to get involved with others.
| >>785199 thanks chief. He just decided that LDR is too hard and said he's not ready for a relationship right now. Im trying to be okay but i really thought he was the one, you know? I still believe he is and i'm fucking stupid. I'm stunned at the complete 180 he did out of nowhere. Im left picking up the pieces and hurting while he's waltzing around probably getting railed
| >>785211 does this really work? Dont you just kind of distract yourself but not really deal with the issue? I don't know.. it sort of haunts me.
| >>785240 thank you g/u/rl. We really do be struggling out here, huh? It's crazy that people can work like this. Stay strong, king. See you on the other side. If you want to talk about it, we can if you want. We can mope around together lol
| Women don’t understand the grind
| >>785636 you just don't understand the millionaire grindset, you have to break up every relationship that you have!11!1!1
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| It's a lesson for op to understand having emotional attach towards peoples can only do harm.
| >>5cfa88
This. I'm learning that through the hard way. I became attached to my best girl friend and I wanted to confess my feelings for her except someone asked her out first.
I'm feeling incredibly devasted and I'm unsure what to do. I just sent her a long confession anyway and told her that I will be gone for a while.
The Epicureans were right about love, just avoid it to minimize pain.
| ITT: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9FZVdoakd0
I moved on from a break-up by hopping directly into another relationship, and better yet, having my new partner help me clean up the brunt of the emotional pain of it. ( ˙꒳˙ )
What. Can. Go. Wrong?
| >>785964 but how can you not attach yourself to the person you love? Seems tough
>>786031 wait you went into a relationship even before moving on? Isn't that unfair to the person you're currently dating?
| Simple be single all your life
| Don't be a little bitch. Imagine giving a shit at all about someone who you broke up with, either you were the problem and you're too weak to grow in the way you learned you need to or they were the problem and you're a weak dependant loser.
| >>786126 imagine being filled with so much bitterness that you become like this on an anonymous board
| >>786127
Yes, literally correct. Are you a dog, literally bred for loyalty and with no concept of personal agency, or are you a human being? Why do you romanticize such weakness and idiocy, and try to pass it off as being just in touch with feelings? It must be just because it's easier, I suppose, than acknowledging that either you were in the wrong or chose the wrong partner. You can't be a failure in that way, you must just be too attached and woe is me and bla bla. Whatever.
| >>786128
This is what anonymous boards are for. Very few places can you lay down harsh realities of this type besides anonymously on the internet. These are the types of things parents are supposed to teach, but unfortunately we're several generations into letting pop culture tell us to be obsessed with love as some sort of magical concept, because it's comfortable and frees us from having to do anything but wallow in self pity about it when it doesn't go our way.
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| Hey kings. Really need advice for this one. i dont want to doze off and mope around but your g/u/rl's really sad over being discarded so easily. Help. :(