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Should your boyfriend be your bestfriend?
| bestfriends are boyfriend material g/u/rl
| or girlfriend
| it's ok
| Well I just discussed this with my bf and we agree that it can be treated as a such.
| It can be, but it can also not be that way. Depends on your relationship dynamics, there's no one right way to define relationship labels.
| bff should be your cat
| A boyfriend is something like your best friend.. Just.. More than your best friend. But not the same way your best friend is
| just use the 'more than a friend' card and you should be ok
| I think you're all putting too much importance on titles and words. You have your friends and you have your boyfriend/lover. No reason why you can't be friendly with all of them. If your boyfriend is overly concerned with also being called your best friend, there's a whole different set of issues there.
>TL;DR Don't worry about it.
| It just all depends on how you define the term his best friend can mean entirely different from yours. But who's to say you can have only one best friend, he may say it just because he trusts you as a best friend would
| Well, you fucked up OP, boys should stay at the cubical and type. Once you give him a little bit of freedom, he'll start treating you like that. Go beat him now and drag his ass to the work desk.
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| My bf says I'm his best friend... I have my own best friends so I can't say it back but he says that bf should always equal bff, but i simply dont think thats true. Thoughts?