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Have you ever get bored of your partner?

| We used to always talk together every little chance we have, text 24/7 and laugh at every little thing. But now, I don't think they appreciate me as much as they does during the honeymoon phase. Now, they seem distant, it takes them hours to reply to my texts and, yeah, I think I'm boring them and I'm starting to get bored of them too. And now my stupid mind is thinking of letting them go.

TLDR: I bored my partner to death, what to do??


| As a bored person, what helps me is the occasional conversation about a serious topic. I feel my partner never really pays attention to my actual interests and just has happy superficial interactions.


| Have you guys ever talked about it ? Like "hey i noticed we're getting distant from each other, what's up ?"
Communication is key in a relationship

There's this guy I was pretty close with to the point where we would have sex but one whole week away from me and mofo started ghosting me and being cold, I tried my best to know why he acted like that and what I did wrong but he would always change the subject and says "idk"
(1/2)


| (2/2) During new year's eve i sent him the last message where I basically said "go f yourself, you've no idea how much you've hurt me) and ONLY THEN did he realize his mistake and responded (note: i saw his response 2 weeks after because i had blocked him and it was only a matter of chance i saw it)
I've forgiven him now and it seems like he's even more loving than before this shit

Anyway, just wanted to say that when men realize they're losing one hell of a girl, they coming back


| I only had one partner in my life yet but i know some of this with friends. I mean it's very similar with friends. I also think it's disgusting how that first person here tried to give you tips as "the bored person". Unless you don't kinda ignore stuff he or she says it's not entirely your fault.


| It depends in both people. If you are a person who gets easily bored with people because they don't entertain you enough, it could be you yourself. >269d7c Are you saying interesting stuff yourself? Or are you just expecting others to do it and you just "react" to it? Maybe you haven't said anything interesting at all? That makes you the boring person.


| To the OP: It just depends on both people. Letting things stay interesting is SERIOUS EFFORT. You have to come uo with new stuff and try to make it spark. But it's also necessary that the other person makes effort too. If you try and they don't respond or even try at all, it's not your fault at all. So don't think that you are the Person who bores your Partner. That's some unecessary inferiority complex.


| >>737583 you have left the puppy love phase and here's where you really find out if this is a woman/man you genuinely care about. If all it takes for you to breakup is being "bored" and you don't do everything in your power to add spice back Into your relationship just call it off now.


| I bored your partner to death


| What partner?

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