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Gender vent
| Gender is a meme, it sucks how uncomfortable it can make people. Yet we derive comfort from said definitions and structure. Poop.
| >>720669
Homie. Just fucking tell him. Like, damn. When you're lucky enough to have a partner who's familiar with stuff like that, why wouldn't you? You're just overthinking shit. Now stop being a pussy-wussy and tell him.
| It's understandable why you feel that way, when we make a really big deal about gender - and it's also inviting change in your relationship, which is always scary. But if you believe in him as a partner, and he's already open to the general idea, i'm sure it'll be a positive step for you or at least one you can back out of if it doesn't seem right
| Not being able to define it definitely doesn't make talking about gender and how you want to be treated pointless... maybe you don't need to think of it as a sort of big serious 'coming out' but i think there are not many people at all who have a really clear cut gender identity coming from inside. You're definitely not the only person to figure it out in relation to other people
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| Im in a gender situation. i want to come out to my partner so that i can see if how i feel matches how i want to be treated by someone i actually care about. Its stupid that im so anxious considering our situation at large, and his own gender feelings. I guess to an extent im jealous he has such an easy time defining things, and I'm worried the fact that i can't easily define my shit makes comming out meaningless and impossible.
I dunnno, just feel like shit.
vent away, comrades