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How do I make friends?

| I recently broke up with my girlfriend that I was dating with for some time. It was very painful because I got attached to her and her company.
And so I've been thinking about that and realized that I actually don't have any friends. Like, I got nobody to talk with, not even a single "best friend".

Is there any way to, like, download them or something?


| I don't think I'm very shy or unsociable but I just don't have anyone in my life and I don't even know how did that happen


| I'm in a pretty simular situation OP. Especially with covid I can't just walk out to uni and see if there's anyone who would even recognize me.

All I know from highschool is once you get your first friend the number of potential friends rises exponentially. Since they might have their own friend group which you can meet with as well, so it's a dominions effect. The real struggle is staying in touch all those friendships then


| You can find some genuinely amazing people on places like Discord.

Aside from online though, do you have a job? Or school? Both? Places like that can usually be good for making friends. Just interact more with the people there. Talk to them. If you vibe with them and they vube with you, then there you go. You've made a friend.

If you don't have either or you just want more options, places like gamestores if you go to those or bars could be good for meeting new people :)


| I mean, I usually make friends by listening in to conversations and just sitting in on them. Most of the time, if it's like a nerdy or weeb topic, they'll notice immediately and you'll be accepted in the conversation. From there, it's just interacting.
Online, you can go to places like here, and interact with people, and you can even try to ask for their Discord.

You'll find that friend if you keep at it, I believe in you.

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