This thread is permanently archived
That doesn't make me gay right?
| So what if it is?
| >>710151 gay is being attracted to a Male. If it's just sex, it's not gay or at least that's how I think of it. Anal stimulation is just another way to achieve orgasm.
| As long as you're attracted to him because he looks like a girl, it's not gay, even if he buttfucks you
| >>710169
But if I'm attracted to a guy specifically because he looks like a girl AND has a nice dick, that's pretty gay, right?
| The whole 'x is/makes you gay' thing isn't a good question. If it's just one special person, is it gay? How feminine is feminine? There's no metric system for sexuality. You just have to decide what label is the best way to represent yourself. Which it sounds like might be bi, or might be straight but also certain guys for reasons other than their bodies, or maybe something totally different
| >>710175 yeah i agree sexuality is really more of a spectrum than a set of binary yes or no labels on wether or not your gonna sleep with someone
| >>710176 you're worng. If you're physically to someone of your sex you're gay no matter if it's just one person. Then we have the bisexuals, they just want sex but if they choose to settle for someone of the same sex, they're gay. They won't admit it but cuz it's a taboo or some bullshit. If you just like getting your ass pounding I'd suggest you to get a girlfriend who's into pegging.
| >>710178
First of all, someone can be bi and date both men and women over time, or choose not to look for sex/relationships for a while, does that mean their sexuality is changing every few months?
| >>710179 as I said bisexuals only want sex. They're experimenting, they want to know which orgasm is better, as pounding or wet dick.
| >>710181 i'm bisexual and don't 'just want sex', there's more to the whole sphere of sexuality just getting off. It means being attracted to and able to be with men or women. If a man is straight, is the extent of his sexuality just that he likes pussy more than dick? Only for a few people, for most they will 1. want a relationship sometime in their life and some kinds of people are more compatible, and 2. still be attracted to some women and not to others
| Ok, what i just said is actually bad because people can be romantically but not sexually attracted to people. A better response would be: no, experimenting is different than confidently identifying as bi
| >>710186 well that just means that you're also physically attracted to both of them but that's a rarity in my experience. Don't talk of sexuality like some sacred subject. Yes, in the end the whole thing is about what you like the most, dick or pussy. Just imagine being normal and your girlfriend/boyfriend fantasizing about something (a dick/pussy) you don't have. It would be a little weird if even after settling down with one sex you're still attracted to the other.
| Don't know if you can call me gay or bisexual. I like anal sex but I'm only attracted to women but I had some kind of emotional relationship with a man when I was in my early teens but I wasn't attracted to him. Well sexuality is just about sex. Even most gays are only into anal sex and not necessarily the person
| >>710188
You can settle down with a partner of one sex, and still find the other attractive as well, I don't see what the problem here is..?
| >>710188 why? If a women is with a man she doesn't stop seeing other men as attractive, that's totally normal, it's only a problem if her or the relationship has problems. I don't see what's so different if she's looking at women instead
| >>90a123 I didn't think I'd ever see someone so high on monogamy they think bi people aren't bi wwwwwwwwww
Idc what you find wierd or taboo, if people tell you they find all genders hot they find all genders hot; Be they single, or it in a relationship with one or multiple people. It's as simple as that.
Also I've met many hetero ppl who "just want sex" being horny doesn't make you bi
| >>710205 the taboo part was meant for people like you who think its taboo to say that bisexuals only want sex. And I can find weird anything I want.
| who cares if it's gay? the question that matters is "is it based"
| Bruh. You probably a bit of a fag, but who isn't? More importantly, who cares?
| If there's a hole..
| I care, about myself, not others, but not about the label, but about the exact characteristics.
| Op you are what you are sexuality lables are dumb, you like what you like and thats it <3
| Who cares?
Gay? Straight? It's okay, as long as it's cute.
| Yea cute is justice.
| >>498991
Not really, I mean being attracted to trans girls isn't gay. Trans girls who like guys are deemed straight afterall, since they're women. I'd say it depends on how much you like the dude because it's a guy, but being pan/bi exists so I don't think it really matters. If they're attractive to you, that's all that matters right?
| shit, don't quote me on that with pedos
| >>711081
What do you mean by trans girls? Like, females born in male body? Because if that's what you mean, then yeah. You're correct.
| trans isn't real
| >>711121 yeah I was just meaning because some people still think that liking trans girls is gay because they still tend to have penises, even though it isn't. Trans women are women, so it's not gay
| Why the bait on this board just getting lazier and lazier? It's like baiting is just an ironic inside joke at this point.
| >>711390 that wasn't a bait. I was just spitting facts. Cutting off your dick doesn't make you a woman. It just makes you a person with mentall illness.
| I think you're all forgetting and important part of this.
The "trans" in "trans woman" or "trans man", stands for transition, which means they're not a woman or man YET.
| один раз не пидорас так сказать
| >>711392 oh as we know from the data, trans people commit suicide either before or after the amputation. Is that the reason why I've seen a lot of transwomen and zero woman who's an ex man?
| >>711411 well, if you don't notice you obviously don't notice ????. Also, I'll remind you that the number one correlation with those suicide rates you people like to bring up is being bullied about it or not, same as any other minority
>>711392 that's not actually true. Trans is an identity label
| >>711413 bullying? You call telling these mentally ill people to not amputate their body parts bullying?
| When someone calling you by the wrong name causes you to have a breakdown and seeing yourself in the mirror causes unending mental anguish but you definitely don't have a mental illness so the solution is to cause irreparable harm to your body through mutilating surgeries and hormone injections
| >>711426 If someone chooses to live, say, as a man and you disagree (which includes many options besides surgical transition) , that's their own business. Yes, the urge that transphobes feel to shove into other people's lives, attack their ability to make decisions, physically threaten and attack them, take constant actions to exclude and hurt them - it's the definition of bullying.
| >>711431
>the urge that transphobes feel to shove into other people's lives
funny when it's actually trannies that want to force the world to buy into their delusions
| Ah yes, the constant scourge of people, especially right here and now, bullying cis people for the gender they choose to do, unprompted
| >>711406 That's true, biologically speaking.
>>711413 That label must have some origin, and the one I said is the one that sounds more logical to me. I may be mistaken.
| >>711430 >>711431 >>711438 >>711443 >>711439
Ok so people with BIID shouldn't be helped. It's their life. Who is anyone to help them. People with anorexia shouldn't be helped... you get the point. I don't know since when the notion of putting people with mental illnesses on a higher grand became so important. You're stupid if you truly believe that they should be able to just amputate.
It's the same thing with helping someone's who's trying to commit suicide. It's their body but
| People still try to help them. But in the case of trans people, the help isn't possible because of retards like you who encourage their illness.
| I hope you take that tone with anyone getting piercings for much pettier reasons
| More seriously:
- there are reasons to be trans other than gender dysphoria
- gender dysphoria is weird and there are a lot of ways of helping people with it that aren't surgical
- the most important one is looping back to the not bullying thing
- sometimes it really is just rooted in the brain being wired for body parts it wasn't born with, and bottom surgery (which is a lot more than amputation) is the best way to resolve it
| And fundamentally, there's no reason other than bullying for you to shove into a conversation on sexuality to rant about the problems you think trans people have
| >>711486
so trannies are bullying me when they want to force me to change my language for them, play into their delusions, and force my community to let them into bathrooms for the other sex... isn't it true that in Canada it is now illegal to "misgender" someone?
| >>711489 well, if true, which i doubt it is entirely, it shouldn't be illegal because the state doesn't have a place in it. But that's a different question than: what *should* you do? You should treat people with respect and address them with respect. It's legitimate to demand to be called the name you go by, just like bystanders should look down on and pressure a person who insisted on calling you a demeaning childhood nickname, or a middle name you hate or something
| >>711492
Yeah, of course, but don't you know how difficult it is to say a name or say "he" instead of "she"? Like, wtf? Do they really expect me to say one letter more or one letter less? Like, if I call someone "him" and they say that they're a "her", how the fuck am I supposed to rewire my brain to change one word when I'm referring to them?
If you couldn't tell, this shit is sarcastic. It's retarded that people genuinely complain about trannies because of pronouns being "hard".
| i'm just gonna go ahead and not do that, you don't get to police my speech and call it transphobic or bullying if i don't, you can fuck right off with that
i will never take trannyism seriously, you're trying to make it sound like it's actually legit, to me it's just delusional
| danger/u/ had better not go to war again.
| >>711498
Yeah, yeah. It's difficult to accept things that are different from you and that you don't really know anything about, and then you treat them with no respect because you're obviously superior to those weird "delusional" people.
Just read proper studies, stop trying to be edgy, and try to look at yourself objectively before you call others delusional.
Though this is just gonna give you more bait fuel and shit and you'd never change your opinion because you're so smart.
|
| No.. you are bi xd
This thread is permanently archived
| So I think I am a pretty straight male but I also wouldn't mind sleeping with a feminine male friend. I was just wondering if it's gay to think this way. It ain't gay right?