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What do you do about someone you love but they can't make up their mind?
| for the record I tried getting her back this year and now this cycle is happening again
| basically, just let her go, believe me, i've had this ex girlfriend who really kind to everyone, one day she broke up with me for no reason, she still single till now, but we still somehow became close friend
| I see, I actually tried to a while back, I was just going to disappear so that they'd know they screwed up. My mistake was that I told them that I was going to do that, she then lulled me with sweet words saying she might pick me. I'm such an idiot. I know that I should leave them even though I don't want to, is there any way to convince them?
Or should I just start trying to be strong? The first time I lost her drove me insane and I don't want that again.
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relax, bro, believe me, just sever you ties with her for a while, you think how many years i wait for my ex-girlfriend to convince her to come back for me, and how many confessions for that, i know that seems pathetic though
| Let it go, girl. She clearly doesn't want to stick around, and it's really creepy when you try and salvage things. I used to date this one guy and I made the same mistake, and wow do I regret it. You'll find someone else, but take this as a learning experience that you can't force someone to like you. Respect others' boundaries and things will be way easier.
| Yeah, you're both right. I know I can find someone else, I'm just being lame, thank you.
| Let her go. It may cut deep but it's better then the years of twisting the blade you can face...
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| So here's the short version:
Last year I met a lovely girl we both seemed to love each other dearly but later it turned out they liked someone else, I got dumped. I stupidly tried to steal her back, I succeeded but it didn't last long because she can't decide on if she wants me or them. It's my first time dealing with love and I don't know what to do, I really love her but I'm so inexperienced.
Thoughts?