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Would you make me your friend?
| I've always thought it might be nice to have someone to hang out with who didn't expect me to hold a conversation or ensure they're entertained. But, I'm not good at scheduling things, so that might have to be up to you.
| I would, though I'm pretty similar so the problem would be meeting in the first place. Personally being ok with myself often having nothing to say is something I've struggled with, but if i can get beyond that and we do have something good to do with that friend then i still enjoy hanging out silently. It does mean things can get boring sooner, but there's always another time
| A lot of us enjoy silence, it's just not easy to share this resource.
| Being quiet or introverted isn't a thing that can or should be considered as an imperfection or a flaw. I'm sure you'd make an excellent friend, op! Just keep communicating with people. The right person will pop up in your life eventually
| I have friends who can be really quiet. Hanging out with someone even if it's mostly in silence can be really nice. I can't stand people who can't tolerate silence and are constantly talking no matter what. It's tiring.
| Sure, why not? Can we play some soft ambient tunes while we hang out?
| I'm kind of quiet too and it's because I kind of enjoy the silence, but also that I like listening to others. We could be silent buds together :)
| I guess? I'm *way* too quiet myself though, so I might be even more boring than you think you are. But I've just let my previous friendships erode away bit by bit from the lack of effort or any kind of motivation from my side, and that says a lot about me as a person.
| it is my opinion that real friendship is natural and takes no serious effort.
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| If I'm quiet? I mean REALLY quiet. I've always thought about having a friend I can hang out with in comfy silence. I don't think I can offer anything fun to do during hang outs, I'm a very boring person