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Oversharing / Personal Boundaries
| I feel also little paranoid that she was testing my personal boundaries without let me know and that i did totally fail..
| Opinions?
| That sucks OP. Guess you should keep that to yourself in the future.
Not everyone needs to know everything about you.
| I feel sorry for it now.. It was in am hours, my mind was feel mindfucked, confused, but also curious.. idk why i was answering.. she said that she can talk with someone other if i won't answer.. what was launch me little also jealous feeling.. i wasn't thinking about it really.. but.. now i feel as that i did fail.. she is only one person where i miss boundaries.. if she was someone other, i will probably never talk with this person after it xd my boundaries are strict ornotexists
| As long as you didn't go beyond what she asked, I can't imagine it was too egregious
| >>689360 i just was tell her that she don't have to sorry, that she did nothing wrong and wished her good night.. and i did sorry myself if i was wrong..
| i didn't tell anything more, i was feel right that embarassed too much
| it something that you need to be used to so dont worry, with enough mistakes you'll learn where the boundaries are you and the other party are comfy with
dont close yourself out of discouragement tho its fine, in the end it's just a convo and people forget eventually
| I don't want to gatekeep, but I had a stroke reading this, please learn proper english
| >>689416 i have little feel that my boundaries are going worster than better, i wish being honest to her, so i would probably make same mistake again.. but.. i feel fear that she can abandon me for it..
>>689422 i'm sorry, i think that i did develop really good dictionary knowledge after 5 years, but sadly, my grammar and spelling are really trash, and kids are maybe better in it..
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| Hello..
Today i did answer one person what mean for me much some intimate questions.. i was blush so much, and answering honestly, and she had probably fun from it.. but at end she was sorry and gone sleep.. I feel little fear if i was right.. i feel fear that i was overshare.. i miss personal boudaries little, what makes me feel little feel bad if i didn't share too much that she expected or anything.. I want just honest answers please, i feel really guilty, i was sorryto her too