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I don't want to feel so sad
| You need to love yourself first. If you're in a hole you need to work to get out. Regular excercise and cleaning up your surroundings are good places to start.
Also you get what you give so stop being toxic and start being wholesome.
I'm rooting for you, homie!
| >>688252
Basically what that g/u/rl is saying, except for:
> Also you get what you give so stop being toxic and start being wholesome.
I've witnessed too much abuse to believe in that shit.
But, well, happiness ain't fully a choice, sadly. You need to put a lot of work and effort into bettering your situation and your mental health. You can do it though homie. You can get through it and feel better.
| You don't always get back what you give lol, only when you give something at the right amount, right time, and at the right person.
You can be toxic and wholesome at the same time, just portion it to different people XD
OP I hope you'll feel better, definitely check your attachment and evaluate if it's worth it, also eat ice cream it helps you can always depend on ice cream.
| >>688262
I can assure you that if you allow toxicity to breed within you it will effect all your interactions. You better drop that shit.
| Nice people only hang out with other nice people.
If you're toxic then you only get to hang out with people who find toxic behavior acceptable, aka other sad fucks like OP.
| how the hell is op being toxic..?
| I know. I just feel like being wholesome all the time is a fake thing.
Wait, being sad is toxic now? What?
I still believe toxicity is not avoidable, there is always two sides of things, you just gotta channel it properly.
| >>fbe94e
I'm not saying that people should be toxic, even though that's how you choose to see my message.
I'm saying that "you get what you give" is an incredibly naive way of thinking. Some of the nicest people I know have been sexually abused by their family and had abusive partners.
Were they abusing them? No. They just existed and tried their best to be nice to people and then cunts took advantage of them. That's not "getting what you give". That's the sad reality we live in.
| OP here (I hope my IP remains the same). my apologies for starting another thread about toxicity, I just want to be happy man
| There really isn't anything bad about this thread, people just like to overuse 'toxic'. And it's definitely not true that people get what they deserve and deserve what they get, although you could say that if someone is 'toxic' as in mean to people, yeah people are going to also be alienated and mean. But i doubt that's the issue
| I uhhh
I fail to see where the toxicity lies in this thread...
OP good luck on finding happiness
| Have sex and have fun.
| This thread needs more toxic people towards idiots that derailed OP's thread. Projecting their own insecurities and making it about themselves is toxic.
OP, try to surround yourself with more positive people and stay away from the ones that drain your energy. Which also requires you to stay away from most sad people.
Some just feed off of it.
| >>fbe94e fuck you
>>c7381c and fuck you
>>f3a7ae and fuck you too
Because of you shit-goblins, OP should have built up some toxicity within them. To tell off projecting garbage-rats lile you.
| If anything I do have my morality set and the opinions on whether to be toxic or to not be toxic within the thread won't affect that
>>688252
>>688257
I will try and work onto making the space around me more enjoyable, and maybe try again to learn to be happy on my own, my issue remains being how dependant I have become of this person
>>688465
I at least have a good group of friends despite them being online, and do good at knowing when people is not worth bothering with
| >>688499
Well clearly it's not working because you're not happy.
And neither is >>40812f
He has no fucking clue about finding happiness himself so don't bother to listen to his advice.
The first reply tells you what to do. Take care of your health, your surroundings and be nice to people.
| Toxic people aren't happy people. Listening to them about finding happiness is literally retarded.
| WhAtS wrOnG WiTH yoU? JUst dOnT Be SaD.
| Lol ive read the word 'toxic' in this thread so many times that it doesn't seem to be a real word anymore.
OP basically what the 1st gurl said. There are a lot of things we don't have control of. But what we can control is our response towards it. It may be hard but u really gotta try prioritizing yourself first, in a way. (Not in a stuck up or selfish way, but a healthy way) i hope you'll be ok OP and i sincerely wanna believe that u will!
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| I want to be happy I really do I don't want my happiness to be so dependant on one person why