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How to stay friends with someone you're still in love with and jealous of their life
| Git gud. Focus on getting better at life and built up financially.
| I don't know things.
| Git gud, get healthy and get a job.
| Block/Mute her online and get on with your life.
| Take some time to tend to yourself first.
| >>687150
Don't do this. It's just childish. At least explain yourself first and that it's hurting you. Or see her less and less until it doesn't matter anymore.
| >>687159
Nah block her and move on for sure
Talking to someone you still feel for is an excuse to fool yourself into trying to rekindle old familiar feelings
| >>687163 I will have to agree. It might seem childish at first but its the most mature advice you can take since you wont end up lying to yourself.
| Well if one of your friends would block and mute you out the blue you would throw a hissyfit and post about it here.
And you're about to do the same to another person. Not very mature imo.
Given that you two are actually friends. If it's just an acquaintance on your friend list then who gives a fuck.
Either way OP, you need to stop looking at what she's doing online and start working on yourself. Regular exercising is a good start.
| Speaking from my experience, which i guess has been similar , the worst thing you can do is just take it and hope for the best. Your feelings will not change, her feelings will not change.
It took me two years, getting depressed to no end, being the best friend i could, but at the end i just tortured myself.
Even if you lose a good friendship, distancing is the only option if you don't want to feel like shit anymore.
And talk with her before doing that. She should understand you
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| I can't read what she types without feeling like shit, it just won't go away. She moved in with a new friend as a roommate and it's everything I ever wanted except I can only look