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so i'm basically trapped with someone i no longer rly like
| Well for now you better put some effort into getting along since you don't really have a choice.
| Sorry, I was under the assumption I was talking to a mature adult.
| OP is the problem
| >>686961
In that I personally don't want to live with the other person? I...suppose?
Kinda just wanted to vent that I am trapped in place with someone i no longer consiser an s/o but by all means take yr potshots bbys
| >>686965
I know but being told "well ya better get along" as if that isnt a prerequisite kinda made my eyes roll. Was more seeing if others are experiencing the same deal since another thread is talking about covid isolation
anyways yeah snark doesnt transkate well it seems
| >>686967
????
so anyways as the thread states im stuck in quarantine w someone i no longer really like. Thats itm thats the story. "Damn, sux lmao" is a fully acceptavle reply too
| gr8 responses bois, tip top
????eace
| Did OP just derail his own thread?
| Yeah OP. You need to learn a thing or two about how to cultivate threads. Sucks to hear that you're not doing well with your current living situation but the only solution is working it through with your roomie. Good luck!
| >>686979
Honestly given a couple of the responses here im not gonna try too hard
Things are tense as would be expected but I'm managing
| If you dont want to even try with effort then its your fault and you called for it
| Oh boy
| You guys are the snowflakes here.
OP just responded that some comment was giving him "captain obvious" advice. Might as well not have bothered replying at all there if you have nothing of use to say.
Besides being in OP's situation, it's probably not easy being forgiving when life throws shit at you.
OP, I don't really have much to give advice on but I hope you find your answers sooner than later.
| Yo OP can you explain your stiuation a lil bit more I wanna hear it!
| >>51c65e
>Might as well not have bothered replying at all there if you have nothing of use to say.
>OP, I don't really have much to give advice on
What kind of sub-90 IQ person are you?
The first post OP gets is solid advise and his interprets it as demeaning and throws a childish fit for no reason. He's asking for a shitty a shitty thread because he turned it into one.
| >>687027 bruh thats the problem, op
never gave details and just started to bash us when we only gave vague solutions
Op doesnt understand that they should at least try to be friendly and give details if they want actual advice, no wonders they have troubles living with someone, op cant even be more direct about whats going on
Lack of proper communication tipical thing that ruins all relationships
| >>687080 maybe they didn't want advice, maybe they were writing up a longer post, maybe they would have explained if someone had responded to their one line complaint with a one line question. Assuming and approaching someone rudely from the beginning is never going to be productive
| >>687089
What's with all the unnecessary excuses? "What if this, what if that". Are you simping for OP or something?
Also the first reply was obviously not rude. OPs first reply on the other hand...
| Oh wow
>>687027
Thank you. Legit all I was doing was venting anyways so as soon as I saw 'snowflake' I just clicked away...that's some cringey 12 year old shit yknow
But again, ty
| And so I conluded, op doesnt want to solve their problem and is to lazy to try, instead of talking about it and they decided to not face it and keep living with the person they dislike without talking to them and ruining things even more
| Me: Oof i cant wait for travel and work restrictions to lift so i can move out
Chuds: SOUNDS LIKE YOU RUINED THE RELATIONSHIP
Me: Okay, sure, let's pretend that's true. Anyways, I wanna move out but have to wait.
Chuds: OP WONT EVEN WORK AT IT
Me: Yeah I have no interest in salvaging a pointless and loveless relationship.
Chuds: OP IS LAZY
fuck me lmfao
| OP: doesnt give any story or details, refuses and is rude to people giving limited advice, doesnt want to talk but still types here for some reason and unirocally uses CHUD
"CHUD"ANOM: assumes op is lazy and ignorant and say that he needs to be more precise and less defensive
OP: look at these CHUDS, they are so mean, fuck my life lmfao!!!
| >>687205
i mean
said it was a vent
never once asked for advice
meanwhile there are dudes in here saying 'snowflake' like it's 2012 and insinuating im at fault for some imagined breakup despite me saying its that im just not into the other person
you can keep crowing that im being a twat all you want but that doesnt change those facts or that other posters itt clearly seem to see things my way.
| Seems like the real problem is a lot of yall came wigh unsolicited advice and are angy im not asking for it. Cant help ya there. If your only takeaway is that im being difficult, then yes, novel observation, Very astute.
I'm not gonna fight with you over this hahaha helps me just to put it in words and see that at least one other person has acknowledged me, which I got <3
| Imagine being "difficult" and then having to use a anom thread to vent about how hard it is to live with someone
| Also saying that they are not gonna fight but still gets baited by everyone calling them out
| >>687215
Lmao im actually so interested in what arbitrary metric you measure this by
do people who vent on main rank higher?
also im toiletposting, if you wanna take my responses as "fighting" while you ironically use passive aggression to try and bait me into some kinda "no u" slapfight then like
sure
No u
| And you better answer >:/
| still think op dumb, just try to talk to person about whats bothering you, Im sure they will understand if you actually try
| "Well for now you better..." is definitely not the beginning of any sort of advice that is not condescending. The advice given which can be accurately summed up as "deal with it for now" was nowhere near helpful : it doesn't help working toward, or envisioning a solution, closure.
I don't even get how it's been labeled as "solid advice"...
And in this context it's pretty much normal for OP to dismiss it as what it is : unsolicited advice that isn't actual advice...
MTFBWU OP.
| >>687230 thats the point if op doesnt give details the people wont give solid advice, everyone already complained about that
| >>687236
OP could have been asked for details first. OP never asked for any advice to begin with.
"That's the point"
no. It's not. Solid advice being given for providing details can't be the point, because advice was never asked for in the first place.
You also dismissed the fact that someone actually called the first reply "solid advice", when it is plain wrong.
And who is this everyone you mentioned ? Definitely doesn't include some of us.
| With that said, it sucks we weren't competent enough to defuse that useless keyboard joust.
| >>687240
>OP could have been asked for details first.
Why should we be forced to carry the conversation for him?
The first post was solid advice and certainly didn't warrant a sarcastic reply or even walls of texts trying to dismantle it. JUST LET IT GO!
| Who said you were forced ? It was all hypothetical. Things could have gone differently, that's all.
If you want to call the first reply solid advice, then we're just in disagreement, no big deal.
It's true, nothing justified sarcastic replies.
But it was also an option to just
LET GO
in the first place.
Just like it was an option for OP not to reply in this manner.
| >>687244
Because he's emotionally invested in some of the responses. Which is very snowflakey behavior. Who the hell cares this much about such a percieved slight?
If you start a thread about any form of problem then you're gonna have to be prepared to get advice from people who wants to help you. You don't get to decide what people post.
| >>687244
Because this reply is part of why it's gone to shit (along with the few replies under it).
And since it's gone to shit, I'm gonna add to the pot.
:/
| Wow people in this thread sure are sensitive...
| Im fucking cackling holy sgit
| Didn't realize facebook have danger/u/ theme
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| i cannot wait for quarantine to fully lift so i can find some way to move out.