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i want affection from someone who actually cares
| I wish the people I cared about would actually believe me when I tell them they mean a lot to me and that I care about them rather than telling me I don't actually care about them and shit.
| >>683210
As someone who, unfortunately, does that, I want to say that it's not that we don't actually believe you, and not that we don't appreciate having you care about us. It's a product of deeply rooted insecurities, lack of any feeling of self-worth and being in a negative mental feedback loop. It is very, VERY hard to overcome all this. Of course, this does not excuse our behavior and on behalf of everyone like me I say sorry. We really don't deserve you and people like you.
| >>683206
Honestly: I do not know you, and I personally cannot care for you, but I can offer you a good hug, because I also want one.
| >>683269
I know exactly why. You don't have to explain in. That's exactly why I hate it. I hate it when the people I care about hate themselves and think they're "nor worthy" of anything good. I absolutely fucking hate it. I can't blame you, and I've been there before myself. It's really rough. It absolutely fucking sucks to be that and feel like that, which is why I hate it. I'd rather endure that shit over and over again myself than the people I care about having to deal with it.
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| i just want a hug from someone who really wants to do it. i'm sick of people trying to act like they care when they obviously don't. i don't want to be told "i love you" or "i care about you" when it's obvious you're only saying it because you feel like you're inclined to.
the few times i've genuinely felt wanted were temporary and i really want to feel that again. i crave it all the time yet it happens so rarely.