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not wanting to be your gender but not wanting to transition?
| Trap
| A person with self-acceptance issues, mostly due to the numerous gender stereotypes and false values we have in our current society. Seek professional help, I'm not memeing.
| So gay?
| That's how a lot of nonbinary people feel, though it could be a lot of 'categories'. Experimenting with what works for you is always cool if there are spaces you can do it in, and talking to different gender communities online helped me clarify some things. What >>682114 said is also not a bad idea, especially if it's causing you problems or stress
when you say not wanting to be your gender, what do you mean?
| normal
| >>682152
when i say i don't want to be my gender, i mean i don't want to be a female (my gender). i don't like the way people expect me to act or dress, i don't like how i'm physically weaker compared to my male peers, and i hate how i constantly have to be reminded of my weaknesses.
also i don't and most likely won't consider myself to be nonbinary. and i'm unfortunately not able to seek professional help
| Well, that makes you a female. You have the power to say "fuck you" to some other shmuck's expectations, dress however you want and to become stronger. Use it.
| >>682156
Fuck their expectations, gurl. Do what you like, dress how you like, be what you want to be. I used to feel awkward being a girl but I'm pretty happy with being who I am now, even though people might say I don't act like a girl.
Granted, I live in a very supportive environment and I'm naturally independent, so saying fuck them is pretty easy.
| It makes you non-binary.
| It means you have too much free time and a very comfortable life.
| Just be yourself and stop giving a fuck about labels. Dress how you want and behave how you feel comfortable.
I'm myself a dude but I don't give a fuck what people call me or how I behave. I like femine stuff and I like masculine stuff.
Be human and have some dignity and self-respect in what you do and are. Applying labels to yourslef just puts pressure onto self to suddenly try and fit more in to labels.
Make the best of the cards you are given, adapt. That's what humans do.
| Eh, never thought I would meet somebody with the same problem.
I'm male though, not female.
Anyway thank you g/u/rls for the serious talk here.
| >>682156 Do understand that it could just be an envy thing. I've felt similarly, hating how as a g/u/y I needed to be up to par with male standards and any weakness I show are either ignored or mocked. But that's a society thing, I personally have no problem with my biological gender. It could be just that, but I'm no expert, so if the problem is frequent on your mind then maybe a counselor of some kind could help.
| >>682156
you're A TOMBOY and that's COOL!
remember you can dress in a masculine way and you can WORK OUT i see soo many girls online that are buff as fuck
and i kinda like it
just as i like tomboys
don't listen to all the nonbinary lgbtqaigbgjb+ bullshit. we all know there are 2 genders and the rest is personality. and your personality happens to be... tomboy!
| and if my "spiritual" beliefs can help, i believe we are fundamentally just consciousness, POVs, and "our" body is just a material puppet that we employ to experience a material world. to the core of our being we are not "human", human is this thing of flesh and bone that's we're in (sounds creepy kek)
and the consciousnesses that we are have tremendous ability to manifest thoughts, but especially in the astral realm because the "awake" realm is just too stable
| so basically you can say that yes you are a female human but you are a soul with masculine attributes!
in the beyond you appear as whatever you want to be
| thanks gurls :) feels nice to see people give advice and it makes me happy to see i'm not the only one who feels this way
| Ur not gonna get good answers from randos on a text board, talk to someone who knows u better. All I can say is transitioning is hard and humiliating, think if you can see yourself being happy as ur assigned gender and pay no mind to the weirdos in this thread
| just means you're a tranny and must join us in the trans cult as we 41 ourselves and trick straight men into sex
that's what terfs say anyways, but fuck them.
op, you're nonbinary or trans and that's alright because you don't need to transition to be trans, if you're afab then binders exist and if you're amab then breastplates on amazon exist, now go buy a wig and dress how you like
took me ages to realize it and ngl it feels a lot nicer being comfortable and dressing as i like
| just beware that everybody hates trans people and will constantly state the 41% shit, oh and misgender, happened in /mu/ with a sewerslvt thread.
also if you are amab and bi and want to be a girl, congrats, you're now all five letters of lgbtq.
| You just gotta figure it out homie. This place isn't somewhere to ask. You'll just get baits and toxicity.
| Dress and act however you want to dude!! You want to identity as something different do it! You don't want to conform to any lables and just be idk be living, do it! Just do you man, as long as you aren't hurting ppl you're fine. Be comfortable and love yourself.
| you're just a woman who hates stereotypes.
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| what the fuck does that make me