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Am i a bad person?
| It's bad, but I wouldn't say it's your fault. Ever considered seeing a therapist?
| It's bad, not the worst. It sounds like you have something else going on that needs help.
| >>672191 i guess im just scared that i'm starting to become dettached to people. I really feel tired and i couldn't be bothered reaching out to anyone.
If i feel like they're not well right now, id comfort them but deep down i know that i feel like it's such a chore to do.
Should i see a therapist? My best friend suggested i do that a few days ago but i wasnt really sure if it's helpful. I feel like i'm iust creating more problems and burdens to my loved ones if i do that.
| >>672238 maybe just unable to have time for anything. I feel like im constantly running but never going or reaching anywhere. Why even bother
| it's you.
| >>672245
You really should get a therapist. I don't know why you think that would create more problems, but, it won't. You definitely need help, and you might even have a chemical imbalance. Get yourself checked out and hang in there, alright?
| Why tho? People are different not everyone feels like socializing. I hate being with others and I don't think this will change any time soon. But do you feel uncomfortable being like this OP?
| >>672302
it is what you are. you are you.
people that care don't matter and people who matter don't care
| >>672312 we still have this taboo abt mental health where i'm from and uh i guess the cost of a therapist. Hmm what else.. my parents are so nice and good to me yknow? They'll have this tendency where they'll lowkey blame themselves if i see a therapist and something WAS wrong with me. It's complicated.
| >>672314 do you just hate being with others just because? I feel slightly uncomfortable because im worried that i'm being rude. At this rate i might lose the very few relationships that i have.
| >>672329
Every parent is like that. I'm sure they'd be happy that you're getting help. I mean, of course they're sad that you're suffering, but they would definitely prefer you getting help and suffering less over you suffering more and more in silence.
| Bruh you sound a lot like me.
I wouldn't say it's your fault, you're only human.
| >>672520 sometimes I take baby steps to motivate myself to something I consider satisfactory, but honestly a lot of it (at least to me) is probably sheer luck, which isn't on my side.
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| I don't have the energy to reply to people and i honestly feel like it's so much work to be a human being. I dont reply mid conversation and i think i feel like i don't really care about everybody. Even if i want to care i just don't have the energy or motivation to do so. Is that bad?