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I'm just tired, but I don't want to give up...
| She's told me lots of things about her life; some being good--but others being bad. Then one day, I told her she should leave where she is and start a fresh new life. I was planning on visiting her this summer, but since quarantine reared it's ugly mug--things have been put on pause. I'm hoping next year when the virus dies down a bit I can be able to visit her, and we can both leave together.
| I've told her once she moves in with me she needs to cut ties with the people who've been making her life miserable. Her mom, her ex, her friends that she put her trust into; just the ones that have been making her life a unbearable.
This is just something I needed to get off my chest that's been floating around since last year. Anyways, have a good one, and stay safe everyone.
| I get that. It does sound really difficult, but hopefully things turn out alright for you two. Though >>661854 seems a little controlling. Cutting ties can be good, but ultimately it's her choice and she shouldn't feel pressured to do it. Cutting ties with bad people is often a good thing if you're in a situation where it's possible, but I feel like completely cutting ties with, for example, her mom could be very stressful, no matter how abusive she is.
| I guess what I'm trying to say is:
Don't try to rush things, take things at a reasonable pace, help her without stressing her or being forceful, and I hope everything works out in the end.
| Thanks, and that's what I've been doing a lot to help her. Talking to her, singing to her (my voice is silly, but she likes it). There's other things I want to say about this, but I don't want talk about them on here... There were some really serious moments let's just say
| I'd recommend waiting it out, OP. It'd be kinda sucky of you to get her hopes up, and then leave tbh. I also agree with >>661859 in that you also do sound a bit controlling/manipulative in>>661854 . Are you going to let a little world crisis stand in between you're love? Heck no!
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| I don't want to end my long distance relationship with my girlfriend. I've heard about how usually long distance relationships aren't easy to maintain an handled, but I know this one for sure is something I know will blossom when she moves where I am. She hates where she's living, and I don't blame her. Dealing with her crazy ex, stalkers, and abusive mother; it's put a lot of stress on her. But when I met her when chatting with random strangers; everything clicked.