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how do you deal with loneliness?
| Is there a reason you can't call the friends you haven't seen in weeks? Or well contact them at least? I mean sure your in your house a lot more but nothing should be stopping you from talking to your friends.
| Is good to know have person who would you like a lot.. But i'm not sure myself it it's best.. It's like if your emotions was linked on how is her "^^
| >>655011
i can't talk to my friends because we've either lost or cut contact and most of them don't want to talk with me anymore
| I've probably got inherently shit coping mechanisms from staying up until 2, 3, 4 AM, procrastinating, doing dumb shit on the internet or just hating everything and everyone, Modern Warfare on PC and a bunch of other things.
| Sometimes my mind is just blank, sometimes it's full of anger or hate, or calm.
| Coronavirus is a bitch to deal with.
| But I pretty much have grown up with no close friends for the past 2 or 3 years.
| >>655024
Why do they not want to talk to you?
>>655028
As someone who hasn't had close friends for nearly a decade, it doesn't get better. Only worse.
Make changes while you can, g/u/rl!
| >>655126
i have adhd so i say things that are disrespectful and rude accidentally really often. i'm not mad at my friends for not wanting to hang out with me because of this because it's something i should take responsibility for and work on myself.
i'll definitely try to work on this and fix my relationships with them and i'm also going to work on myself. thanks for the advice g/u/rl! i'll try to fix things and work on myself
| the universal answer to these threads is always clearly nothing and divided opinions.
>feel lonely?
>get a friend?
<how?
>i dunno lol! maybe try essential oils!
| >>655126 sometimes I wish, but I think the fact that I'm pretty introverted is just hampering it all.
| Better to just find peace with myself, enjoy and savour it while I can.
| Sadly, I don't really deal with it at all. I get sad, smoke, and hope I can start meeting people regularly again. It's depressing. I still try to stay positive, but it doesn't always work.
| >>655336
This.
How should you enjoy life if you are at war with yourself?
Friends can't fix that, only you can.
| >>655400
That is easier said than done my friend. Fixing something like that takes a very long time, and usually it would help having friends to support you. Doing it alone would be way harder, but if done, possibly more effective, but I can't be sure.
| >>655401 fixing things also take effort, which has just burned out for me, I'm content with how things are now.
| Losing contact with friends is a huge problem.
Well,talking to others online like this board is better than nothing OP. Or joining a discord server. I'm in a few involving games and YouTube channels where there are people I regularly chat with.
But not too big and overwhelming, or else it would be difficult to get acquainted with anyone.
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| i've been feeling super lonely lately, especially with the covid shit going on. i haven't talked to any of my friends in weeks and it makes me feel sad how i have no close friends anymore.
outside of the internet and video games i honestly don't know how to take my mind off not having anyone to talk to or spend time with. it kinda sucks.