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I've been ghosted and forced to end the relationship by my gf.
| She said that she loves me so much and cares for me, she helped me with my troubles and worries. I got out of my depressed state for a first time in a while. She said that she would love me no matter what and that we'll always eventually work everything out together cuz we love each other.
Where is this love?
Why is this world so cruel?
I don't even know the reason of her behavior. I'm going crazy right now and can't think of anything else. Deleted everything that reminds her.2/2
| I eat less, cuz I can't. I feel nauseous. I didn't sleep for the last 30 hours(last sleep was for like a 4-5 hours). Tried talking to my friends but it just doesn't help. I can't get over it. I just can't, how is this possible. Why did he torture me so much. Why couldn't she just me the reason. I told her how I feel and even though she kept saying that everything is okay and ignoring me.
I am afraid to fall asleep because I might see her there.
| Maybe she's also going through something that she doesn't want to tell you? My SO did that last week. He ignored me and sent me dry replies for a week. Although it's not justifiable because they're hurting others in the process, maybe that's the case?
Still,i'm sorry, gurl. It's hard being ghosted and be out of the loop of their lives. But if she knows what you're going through (with depression and all) and chooses to ignore you still, then she ain't the one my gurl.
| Please take care of yourself OP. Even if it's really tough rn. :( please do your best
| Sorry to hear that OP. Don't forget to take care of yourself.
Maybe she just needs a breather?
It doesn't make her retoric correct and she really should handle things better but maybe just give her some space and talk to her in a few days or a weeks time. Sometimes when people shut down it's because they're overloaded and just needs some time to think their thoughts.
| And I'm not saying this is the case OP but maybe you're being a bit too pushy? She can't carry your worries if she's also carrying her own.
| She stopped loving you and didn't want to take responsibility for her change in feelings. She didn't want to put in effort because she already moved on to someone else.
It hurts, but you are better off.
| Are you, like, a real ghost now? Can move through the walls?
| Don't worry OP. Perhaps it was for the best. I hate to be the one to say it so soon, but there are other people out there. It's good to be sad about the end of a relationship/friendship. That means that it meant something to you. So take some time to remember and cherish it, but while you do so, know that this isn't the end. It's *an* end, for sure. But there's also a lot more waiting for you OP. I'm sorry to hear about it, and I wish you the best in the future.
| she getting the D nigga you're a cuck
| OP here
Update
I found out through her friends that she was lying to me from the beginning.
She was lying even about her last name.
I feel cheated and used.
Should I even believe someone after this, like, I was thinking I mean something for her.
She should get an Oscar.
| Learn how to fap to NTR, thank me later.
| You got trolled epic style xD
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| She ghosted me for 3 days straight saying that she had some things to do which were all lies. Dozens of times she said that everything is OK that she just doesn't want to talk or anything at all.
In the end I asked her to answer my call if she loves me even even a tiny bit.She said she doesn't want to.I said if you care for me, you should be able to put your desires aside and answer for at least 5 sec.
She said she can't.I said bye to her and she didn't write me since then
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