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I need some love advice
| You should like her back and become a couple
| OP, do you actually care for her in that same way?
It sounds like you don't feel the same feelings and are indecisive about what to say as a result. If you don't share the same feelings then tell her the truth. If you think you like her enough to be able to be comfortable dating her, you should still tell her the truth. Just be honest about it. Lying will screw over everything and everybody.
| ^ yuh just be honest
| >>642496
Definitely this. Honesty is key. You can still be friends even if you reject her. I know many people who have been rejected by someone and stayed good friends with them afterwards without any complications or hard feelings.
| Honesty is key, but don't be too honest and say something like "I actually masturbate to the idea of you farting into my nostrils." It's a bad idea, I know from experience.
| If you like her go for it. I was once told the same things by three separate girls who were my friends when I was younger and at the time I didn't really give it much thought and said nah then I never spoke to them again. Moral of the story really think about things before you act so you can make the right decision and also don't feel like romantically liking and possibly being in a relationship will somehow change things for the worst because it actually won't.
| >>642901 yeah im aware of that, if im not honest (specifically with myself) i think not only me but her too would be, "troubled" by the situation
>>643146 that's the problem, im not sure, im not sure whether i want to or im apt to have a gf, tbh i already knew she liked me, and i could've acted on it but i didn't due to that same doubt, I'm not about anything right now tbh, and her saying that got me in a tight spot, because>>>
| >>>for some fucking reason, i know that what i say is going to affect not only me and her, but her friends, that just so happen to be some really good friends of mine, and if i say yes and i regret it then everything is gonna be fucking worse for all of us, and the worst part is that she's really nice and sweet, and i know that putting me on this position is the last thing she'd wanted, its too complicated
>>643141 oh i know, trust me, i know because of experience too, i feel you
| >>643152
Give the relationship a go. Maybe you'll like her when you get to know her better. Or maybe you end up not liking her and she realises she's not that into you and then the two of you just end up being friends.
| Sooo, what happened? What did she say?
| >>643378 so far, i was asking her regular stuff like since when (last year, almost beginnings) or what made her confess to me (just out nowhere according she said) and then i just told her that i didn't knew what to say and the she said, i just like you and that's it, then i didn't answered
>>643159 i believe I'll think more about i, because i did that one before, and as it turns out, i was the one who broke up with her, but that's another story
| Keep us posted op.
| Will do
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| So as of right now i friend of mine, who is a really good friend just said to me that she likes me, thru text, and to be honest i don't really know what to do or say or think, because I'm friends with her and her group of friends, we all are really good friends, and im at a dilema of what to do please help, also about looks, we're both average, i think