Post number #631902, ID: e14e20
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On a scale of 1-10 how bad is it to have a "just in case" for a relationship?
Post number #631964, ID: 41f9d6
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Very bad. Contingency plan relationships tend to fail pretty fast once its discovered that you're only with someone to get over someone else.
Post number #632015, ID: 28635f
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Oh this isn't a rebound. I was asking in the sense of "I know this is going downhill so maybe I should at least know other people" but I get your point.
Post number #632064, ID: e00f2c
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Hm kinda unfair? As much as contingency plans are good. It's a relationship. Do you need a replacement that bad? I think you should let yourself heal first and look for a relationship when you no longer have emotional hang ups.
Post number #632072, ID: c80073
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Yee. What the anons said.
Post number #632081, ID: 008275
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>>e00f2c that's a very fair point and I agree with you. I should rethink a few things.
Post number #632102, ID: ccd9fb
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>>008275 Good. A decision or choice like this doesn't only involve you, but everyone else that you chose to pull in your "plan". Best of luck.
Post number #632187, ID: 64e640
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I tried to address the issues we have and it immediately got turned back on me in a few ways. I was absolutely civil about it so...I don't see why my SO would want me to move in after telling me they need time to recharge after we hang out. I'm going to call it off soon.
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| On a scale of 1-10 how bad is it to have a "just in case" for a relationship?