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I think I lost all my friends
| It's only been 2 days. They're allowed to have bad days etc just like you did so the reason they're not responding might not be personal.
| maybe they're busy?
| have you tried texting them individually? maybe you'll get a response that you wouldn't get using the group chat?
| I think you're overreacting, op. Just text them again
| OP here, I know everyone is busy but I also know they practical live on their phones and social media and they talk to each other outside of the group chat. I made a stupid joke thinking it might lighten the mood of me texting back but they stop texting in the group completely. Like they added me accidentally
| Yeah I'm probably overreacting but I have a weird gut feeling that they are just tired of having to put up with a distant friend...maybe I should text them individually but a part of me thinks I should just isolate myself from them since I can't commit to being closer to them. Idk for some reason I just can't commit to friendships. I'm pretty sure they dont deserve a friend who will treat them like that...
| >>631819
I think you should just try to get closer to them. Isolation is never a good idea. Just keep talking to them casually every now and then and go from there. Just stick it out and see what happens. There's no reason to be rash about it.
| >>631819
Reaching out individually might be the way to go, just don't try isolating yourself or you'll only end up feeling worse. Keep calm and keep trying.
| >>631826 I don't know lol I just have this thing where I'm afraid of being myself in front of others so it's hard to get close to others but I want to try.
>>631828 I'm just used to the whole dropping off the face of the earth/ MIA behavior and I just don't want to hurt anyone with that bad habit. But you're right isolating is just gonna lead me back to those thoughts of harming myself so yeah gotta try somehow
| >>631832
That's the spirit! Good luck! Actually reaching out to people can be really hard sometimes, but it's very much worth it.
| >>631836 Thanks /g/url!! I'll try texting them Monday, maybe in the afternoon that way they should be awake and I'll get a response soon hopefully. But if they totally ignore me well....it's back to having no friends land (which isnt so bad, I guess)
| Update, OP here
So I texted them early yesterday individually and nothing yet. Group chat also is quiet with no replies...
I keep thinking they are talking bad about me like they use to about another friend who one of the girls had a problem with....
| <cc6e2ff>Opposite your personality</c>
| I recommend making new friends, from personal exp, if they ignore you is because they don't really care much, I have been in the same situation and I it just made me feel awful, leaving the ones you love to look for others will hurt but it's better then being left behind
| Go to theraphy and do what mekes you happy, go show za world what your old friends are losing
| OP here, still no response so I'm pretty sure they are ignoring me lol I'll give it about a week or two before I delete the numbers tho
>>632477 I'm in therapy already but I think I'm hiting a wall where I know what's wrong with me up I wont do anything to fix it myself. But yeah once I overcome my depression I'll get back out there.
>>632476 Yeah, you're right. I enjoyed being around them but I always had a mask on. So it feels like I was faking.
| >>632531 same guy from the 2 posts, hey, don't expect yourself to be super open with anybody since you are proly fearing people just relax and talk to people, only the ones who make you feel safe should see your true self, also being drepessed is not your true self just so you know because I made that mistake and it cost a very dear friend, so be positive
| >>632534 I'll keep that in mind! It's just hard to I guess switch over since I always want to be a version of myself that makes certain people happy so I'm always changing myself but I'm working on that. I'm kinda just a neet trying to help my parents so I dont get a chance to go out but I'm trying to reclaim my life so I guess new friends will follow. I'll try to be positive but yeah no promises lol
| >>632669 don't make promises just try to have fun srly, trying to see best parts is hard but if you ever feel bad just remenber that things are relative, life doesn't go like we want so you shouldn't try to please others if it makes you feel bad because at end we really have nothing to lose
| >>632684 yeah, I guess life is too short for promises huh? I just keep thinking about how shitty I let my life become thinking it's going to stay like this forever but logically I know nothing can stay the same forever so that gives me a little hope. But yeah, I'm still a shut in so it's kinda hard seeing no change day in and day out.
| OP here, anyway just want to thank everyone for replying! It's been a couple days and no reply so yeah that's that
Mods can close the thread if they want to now lol
But thanks again for replies everyone!
| >>633081 don't worry about the maids closing the thread. Threads close automatically. Best of luck to you g/u/rl. Hope we can continue chatting on Danger/u/!
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| So because of illness, lost jobs, travel, and depression I fell out of touch with my last remaining friends...I texted them on this new group chat they added me to with 2 new friends and everyone stopped replying. I know they hangout without me a lot so I think that they're rejecting me outright now. It's been 2 days but I just want to block and delete all their numbers so I can save myself from being hurt more...what should I do?