Post number #606408, ID: 5e1600
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Hello g/u/rls, just venting here. I'm very lonely but I have one person who is really important and I am thankful having in my life. I'm trying to change my life for the best and it wouldn't be the same without her. I would like to shout all of this but I always feel held back by the same insecurities:what if she doesn't feel the same, what if she ignores what I feel... I don't know, I'm just one affection-starved gurl.I'm going to try, nothing to lose, just hope not to fuck up
Post number #606455, ID: a069f8
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good luck with that girl?
don't worry about it. worse case scenario you find someone new and you and this girl stay friends.
heart breaks are only a small process that can be easily gotten over.
better say that you try.
Post number #606456, ID: 287020
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My thought is that if you genuinely believe that person's a good person, then they'll accept you and look you nonetheless.
Post number #606479, ID: a38ccf
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try brushing her teeth
Post number #606488, ID: 5e1600
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>>a069f8 Really don't care about a heartbreak or anything, I've had worse. The problem is the fear that my feelings don't have any place in this world, that noone will share or even feel the same I do. It never goes away, sometimes I really feel I'm living in my own made hell. I don't know why I'm writing this, I feel I'm just trying to piece my suffering together. I just want a way our really, writing shit really helps
Post number #606489, ID: 5e1600
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>>a38ccf Well, she did send me pictures where she was brushing her teeth a couple of times. Distance teeth brushing, does that count?
Post number #606492, ID: 5e1600
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>>287020 Yeah about that. I genuinely believe she is a good person ,but sometimes I believe she has kind of a split personality. When we're together all is fine: we laugh, smile, we talk, I feel almost at home. Problem is, when she is away sometimes she grows cold, distant. She almost makes me think she doesn't care about me. I like her as a person, but there's so much about her few, if any including me, know. It's like a bottomless pit:she's been through a lot, but so have I.
Post number #606509, ID: 56695e
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>>606492 That's completely normal. You shouldn't think someone doesn't like you just being they struggle with personal issues. I'm sure you can be a little too in your head, almost in a different world sometimes when you're struggling with things. I know it's at least like that for me. That doesn't mean I don't love my friends or care less about them in any way. It just means I'm having a tough time and while I would love to act like I normally do I'm not really able to.
Post number #606543, ID: a38ccf
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>>606492 please reply with Post number :) >she sent you a pictures of her brushing teeth?!
Post number #606684, ID: 2db416
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>>606492 I was in a really similar situation several months ago OP, and i ended up basically just coming out thanking them for what they'd done in my life. Which was super awkward, but i think also necessary to clear the way for our relationship to change as the situation changed. I was scared that it'd put an unfair pressure on them but since they also wanted to still be friends it was fine, and i think in my case one thing i had to really realize is i'm not the only insecure one
Post number #606685, ID: 2db416
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Not that your situation is necessarily the same or you should do the same, but you're not the only one.
As far as seeming distant when they're not there goes, that might be a sign of how they feel but i bet is just communication style, discomfort or their situation/mental state as the gurl above said. But maybe it would be good to bring it up somehow, if a chance comes along to talk about it naturally/gently. Like discussing socialization itself or something
Post number #606713, ID: d5e7e6
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Give her the best rimjob she'll never forget and she won't leave you alone.
Post number #606735, ID: 840df1
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where you from
Post number #606804, ID: 5e1600
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>>606713 Well can't say I'd be down to that, but I do know she's kinda kinky so I'll figure out something else. There's hope my gurl.
Post number #606808, ID: 5e1600
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>>606685 Thank you all for the replies btw Yeah I've been thinking on how to breach the subject, without her shying away, or me fucking up like always with these things that is. We've been together a lot these past weeks, I don't I just feel something's starting to move between us. Usually I don't trust my gut feeling, but it seems to me that something's on. It doesn't have to be anything romantic, we'd not want that now. Just the two of us being closer would be nice I suppose.
Post number #606813, ID: 5e1600
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>>606808 We're still miles apart, seems like none of us will make the first step I'm thinking I'll ask her out, it would be a change to mostly hanging out at uni and studying together like the usual. Nothing serious, like going out for a drink or two. Maybe we'll get something going, if she agrees of course. She is also working right now, so she doesn't have much spare time. I'm really open to the possibility of being awkward or rejected, I'll just laugh about later it I suppose.
Post number #606817, ID: 5e1600
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>>606735 I'm from your momma's house eh. Seriously, what's up with the question? Does it matter? Why would you ask? Who wants to know? Am I being paranoid? Just for you to know, I'm from a (probably) soon-to-be third world country, I'll let you have a good guess ;)
Post number #606826, ID: a9760d
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>>606817 is it a Slavic country? I'm also onto you now g/u/rl, cmon, crack open, we're waiting.
Post number #606830, ID: 1e3091
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Britain?
Post number #606831, ID: a38ccf
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this is now a guess-OP's-country thread feel free to share your opinions!
Post number #606838, ID: 5e1600
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>>606831>>606830>>606826 If that's what you like, fucking weirdos am I right? Ok go on trying I guess. I'll say if any of you got I right, sounds easy enough right? Ok some little hints: well it is a country in good old yrop, but it is noy a slavic country, although I'm currently studying Russian. That might help, who knows?
Also, I'm not in the UK ,thank God
Post number #606840, ID: e63c45
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>>606838 romania
Post number #606855, ID: b64f4c
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Spain... or all of South America
Post number #606937, ID: f322d5
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Just tell her how you feel and hold her hand! Otherwise you'll waffle and waver and miss your opportunity.
Post number #606951, ID: b64f4c
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Canada?
Post number #606953, ID: b64f4c
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Wait... nobody guessed USA yet... totally USA! USA! USA! Merica furst faggets!
Post number #606969, ID: a9760d
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>>606953 By Gods blessing Europe is nowhere near America and I thank him for it every day
Post number #606984, ID: 56695e
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Why y'all don't know the most basic biography?
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| Hello g/u/rls, just venting here.
I'm very lonely but I have one person who is really important and I am thankful having in my life. I'm trying to change my life for the best and it wouldn't be the same without her.
I would like to shout all of this but I always feel held back by the same insecurities:what if she doesn't feel the same, what if she ignores what I feel...
I don't know, I'm just one affection-starved gurl.I'm going to try, nothing to lose, just hope not to fuck up