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Am I being megacucked?
| [2/2] Did I fuck up by being okay with open relationships? I can't even hook up with anyone cuz I'm not staying in the same spot for more than like 2 weeks so I sometimes feel like I'm just third wheeling in my own relationship.
Am I just too pussy to break up or is there merit to dealing with this until we see eachother in 7 months. Idek if I'll still be okay with continuing to date after she goes out and has sex with several guys. There's more to the story but ehhhhh...
| Sorry to hear about that. But if you want to take your relationship seriously you have to tell her how you feel. She can't read your mind and I'm positive she cares about your well-being.
If you're unsure what to say tell her it's better to break up now so you can remain good friends instead of nurturing negative feelings and risk losing eachother forever.
| Dude being in an open relationship is asking to be cucked, I'm not saying that it's a bad thing some people enjoy being cucked, if you don't want that then avoid open relationships.
If it hurts so much then tell her and try to reach an agreement, if she doesn't want to stop seeing others then just break up and move on, it's better for both of you.
| No, you are just gigacucked
| Yeah g/u/rl, you're cucked.
Whether you like it or not, you gave her permission to go out with people. If you're not okay with her sleeping with other guys, then you need to either talk to her or break it off. Especially if you arent okay being with her after she's slept with other guys.
As >>599568 said, she can't read your mind. You gave her permission to, so she's going to assume it's okay to go on dates and such. You got 3 options. Talk. Break it off. Or be a silent cuck.
| Yes you are being megacucked end it now you cuck
| But what if..
YOU'RE SECRETLY CUCKING MULTIPLE MEN AT THE SAME TIME ?!
| You need to break that shit off. Opening relationships rarely is a good idea, and it's obvious this is only going to fuck you up more and more over time. It's over friend. I'm sorry.
| It's just like one of those teenagers who think that open relationship is cool because everyone is okay with it and it is better than being single. But then he realizes that he just signed up for cuckshit and proceed to be irrationally angry.
| You fucked up.
Open relationships are not real relationships, especially over long-distance. You are the only one holding out for something, she is dating other people. If she won't wait for you, you shouldn't wait for her. See if you still spark when you get back together, but stop hurting yourself in the meantime.
| >>599899 >>599663 >>599568
Thanks g/u/rls, Surprisingly after talking with her she's way okay with dropping the people she was dating. Turns out she still feels the same way and would worry as well if she was in my position. We nearly broke up during that convo but I'm glad we sorted it out.
| You are being extra mega large ntr'd. As a side note op if you decide to stay with her don't have sex with her for a month or so... You never know if after you have some sort of make up sex with protection she is now magically pregnant with your child also never trust the cum inside I'm on the pill/it's a safe day after not seeing each other for a while..
| Long distance relationships dont work
And yes, u a cookie
| Find a bunch of girls, ask her to find a bunch of guys, and have a mega polygamous orgy wedding. It's the only way to be sure of her loyalty at this point.
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| [1/2] My girlfriend and I have just gotten ourselves in a long-distance, open relationship as she left with her family for a year at least and I'm out traveling during the same period. We're too big of wusses to end what we had since we're still hopeful there's something left. That being said she's going out with other people and I'm too lenient to tell her that shit hurts.