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City Living
| Idk. I just got to the city myself. Try joining some clubs or organizations to make friends. No one knows you, and you are whoever you say you are. First thing I did was purchased a bat and deck it out with stickers. It's a permanent fixture in my car now, just in case. Hope you figure out city life g/u/rl. Good luck.
| My advice try and join some group activities about something you like, and see how it goes. Don’t force friendship, the best friends you’ll make will be the ones you didn’t intent to be at first. After that, it’s a loop of going out with them and making more.
But being a shut in isn’t wrong either. After all, you do whatever you want to, as long as you’re fine with it
Good luck with city life!
| Hey I've lived in the city for my entire life and I'm mostly a shut in! It's all good!
But if you don't want that, there should be more events and conventions and hangout places whatnot around.
People in big cities tend to mind their own business though, so it'll be hard if you don't start conversations yourself
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| how do I make it out here. it's not bad but a naive part of me had hoped things would change and i've have friends and shit but i'm still a loser shut in who can't make friends.