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Cancelled, Removed, Exiled, ETC.

| Have any of you G/u/rls ever been "Cancelled" or "Exiled/Removed" from a group of friends for whatever reason, I wanna hear stories, could be big or small, you could have deserved it or not, I just wanna hear some people who have, this is a no judge zone. I'll Start, but a good long while ago I was in a really nice community for a streamer I watched, but the people I hung out with, A LOT of people hated, and after an EX in the group accused me of some bad shit I didn't do, they all dropped me


| The only person who stuck by me after that was my boyfriend, after some time the old friend group told other people about us and slowly ruined our name in the community, at least until my boyfriend and I sorta made a big Evidence Pile probing our innocence and that the other people were some grade A dickbags.


| Oh shit, I left out the best part but a few months later one of that old groups people got outted as a pedophile


| I am definite that it is a judge zone, because your group of friends was the jury.


| >>599087 I meant no judge like, "no judging you based on your stories"


| Back in elementary school I was exiled from every social circles in school. Almost no one wanted to talk to me. Most of the kids would avoid me or pretend I don't exist or generally treat me like a pile of dung they don't want to associate themselves with.

This started almost immediately when I started school (I was a transfer student), and I have no idea why.

It still kinda fucks me up to this day.


| I like to think that I'm a fairly sweet and caring person to my friends.. until they cross the line with me, which is very hard to do because I'm overly forgiving.

But I was pretty much kicked out of my friend group for calling out one of them. Their behavior had gotten extremely toxic towards the rest of us, and I'd had enough. So I put her on blast and called her out on all of her bullshit.. and was exiled for it.


| "Cancelled", "Toxic"... These terms make my skin crawl. But yes, I have been ousted from many social groups in my life, including my friends who I had known from elementary to the end of High School. People are just shit.


| I remember being exiled from all social groups in school for, like, 6 months. Mind that I used to be a very socially dependent kid and couldn't imagine going to school and never talking to anyone except teachers. It was all because my classmates wanted to cheat a test, so while others were looking over at teacher's desk I was on the lookout. We had cameras in half of the classes, including that one. When teacher came, she told us, that she'd seen our operation on camera.


| So all the culprits, who were looking for answers, were banned from the test and received bad grades. Due to the fact that I was standing outside the class, I was not caught. Also, I used to really like the subject (biology) and was on good terms with the teacher, so, someone spread the rumor that I sold my mates. I was shocked, but I couldn't prove my innocence. The best part of the story is that after a few months one of my classmates asked me to copy my homework.


| After I refused, she said that I'll be exiled for even longer than. I told her to fuck off and that was the end of my sociality. Tbh that hit me really hard and started the process of me becoming a fckng weeb with no friends


| Had a group of friends in grade 8. Used ti play tf2 often. One day i traded off my bills hat and felt like shit. Older friend of the group gives me his, no strings attached just friendship yknow. Then a while later i quit tf2 and move onto csgo, selling my inventory. He spreads rumors that he let me "borrow" it and that he wanted it back. Tried making me buy a whole new one for him. Everyone was on his side cause oh hes older and cooler dur dur. Retards.


| >>599263
Dunno, g/u/rl, seems like he was really hurt you sold it, since it was a gift. Doesn't justify spreading bad rumours, thoufh


| I got removed from my family when I was like 12 years old, all because I got a bad grade on a test. I wondered alone on the street for about 4 months until a police officer found me and took me back home. Ever since then I couldn't trust my parents at all, and I always feel unsafe whenever they are around me.


| I was chased out of a few neighborhoods when I was young. To preface, my parents were pornographers, they got into the industry when I was about 1 or 2 years old. We lived in a pretty mild/religious town so when they found out they shuned my whole family, i was about four. My family and I ended up moving to a new state and by the time I was 7 pretty much the exact same thing happened. Parents wouldnt let their kids play with me or come over and I had no idea why...


| ...I didnt learn about the business ultil quite a bit later in life so I was pretty hurt about losing all my friends and having to move again, with out understanding why. It took a couple years for me to willingly make friends after that and both my parents became pretty reclusive in the next neighborhood. I dont remember ever meeting neighbors after that and my parents never had friends outside of the industry again until almost 15 years later.


| >>599372 >>599376
These are both plot to some really dramatic novels and I can't fathom how any real person can go through them.

Hope you both are doing ok.


| Yeah there's been some serious fuck shit stories in here, hope y'all are still doing the best you can out there


| Pretty recently actually I all but destroyed a good online friend group i'd been a part of for quite a few years. Found out that not only were two people in the group were secretly dating, but that one party was manipulating and emotionally abusing the other. Called the guy out on his shit and tried to help and get the gal to get herself out of the situation. Somehow this made me the bad guy to her and obviously him and everyone basically went their own ways after that.


| Now I not only have zero irl friends but zero online friends too


| >>599383
>>599400
Thank you, I'm doing just fine. That whole thing happened about 19 years ago. I live alone with my cats happily now but I can still feel uneasy when I visite my parents.
Well at least I can say I know how to get foods from a dumpster without getting my hands slashed by glass shards/stabbed by needles. Without that officer I think I could be dead long ago so thank you officer.

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