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Aren't you tired of being nice?
| Yes but morals
| Not really. Sometimes, I get angry and want to break things, but never 'go apeshit'. Being actively nice to people is hard, but passive niceness isn't so hard to maintain.
| no i just want being nice to lead me to achieving happiness.
| I fail to understand why you wouldn't want to be nice or at least pleasant, seems against your interest to just be rude for no reason
| Sometimes it's hard to be nice. My whole life parents taught me that being nice is being stupid. I refuse and try to be nice but in the end I just think "damn, I'm so tired, why even try". I don't know how to motivate myself to be nice when I'm tired.
| I try to transform my go apeshit energy into productive work.
Ok so it usually just ends up being wasted on an overnight of yelling at the walls but hey, we try things.
| who said i've been nice ?!
| OP is a faggot nice guy
And is probably a nigger tranny too
| Being nice means more people will be kind to you in return. If your life is full of negativity it makes sense to be mean to everyone, since your kindness would be wasted anyway. I like to be nice so people are nice to me in general, or at the very least I can take the moral high ground.
| Being nice is waste of energy for people that barely have anything to do with you, and didn't even do anything to do deserve it in the first place. I'm not saying to treat people like shit either but just be chill about it and don't dickride other people either.
| Be nice to those who are genuinely nice to you but be an ass to all others. My philosophy
| >>576399
back on topic. so yeah, people that are too nice end up just getting that zombie-y feeling, right? it's like they're not real. like religious nutters who don't say swear words for some reason and have to force themselves to not say it and instead say shit like 'aw heck' and 'dag nabbit' BECAUSE they're unironically scared or something. crazy
| I'm not a nice person.
As in I'm not nice by nature.
I always assume people don't have bad intentions.
I'm a fool.
However, I don't forgive.
And that makes me not a nice person.
The only person I'm not honest with is myself.
If people say I'm nice, I simply ignore them. That's rude ik.
So if I say I love you, I'm not being nice.
I love /u/.
And I can't tire of it.
| Nah. Acting nicely all the time gets tiring and makes you bitter at the end.
Just stop being nice when you don't feel like being nice.
Makes your life much easier and happier, and makes those acts of kindness feel more genuine.
| im tired of being a dick too.
| Being nice some times repay with smiles and thankfull comments. I work in a hospital and being nice is part of my job too and when a patient smiles at you its really good for your spirit. Same thing when someone smiles at you in the streets or at your apartment.
| >>50bbf0 agreed, being nice all the time when its forced can be a strain. Especially if they don't deserve it. You'll certainly build up some resentment that my be dished out on good people if you not careful.
| I am not a nice person in the first place, so no.
| Remember when being nice didn't mean being a total cuck with no opinion or personality?
| I'm tired of NOT being nice, if anything. I don't want to be tired, bitchy and cranky all the time and fly off the handle at a tip of the hat, but it do be like that sometimes, especially with pretty severe neurasthenia.
| I used to be a bad person, and it hurt those around me.
So I stopped.
| No. I enjoy being nice.
| I think I'm sophisticated
'Cause I'm living my life like a good homosapien
But all around me, everybody's multiplying
And they're walking round like flies man
So I'm no better than the animals sitting in their cages
In the zoo man
Because compared to the flowers and the birds and the trees
I am an Apeman
I think I'm so educated and I'm so civilized
'Cause I'm a strict vegetarian
But with the over-population and inflation and starvation
And the crazy politicians
| I think we all deserve the right to go apeshit sometimes, the problem is finding something that you CAN go apeshit, but when you find it, live gets easier
| I think it's important to be nice, even when it feels like the person you're being nice to doesn't deserve it; being nice means that at the end of the day, you can feel good about how you treated another person. If you're nasty, everyone loses.
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| Don't you just wanna go apeshit?