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How do you deal with people you thought were friends but actually hate you?
| Let stuff cool down for a bit then calmly approach the subject (if you still want to be friends with them at that point)
| its hard to be an ass to people who are being open like that
| No friends can hate you if don't have friends.
| I had a friend who used to talk shit about his other friend with me and vise versa. Figured it out when I became friends with the other guy. I don't think it was hate. Everyone has their downsides.
| Sometimes ill bitch about friends bad qualities with someone because i want them to be better but don't know how to approach it.
But if its cut and dry like, "yo he a bitch". Then you talk to em and they are all la di~ da~. Burn and cauterise that shit.
| Hire a hitman, silence their parents.
tell them they're next if they don't swear eternal friendship and love to you
| I have no friends.
| accept it and move on
| walk away.
| Friends ?
Talk shit ?
Woah wait there mate, I have about 3 people I can safely call friends, because they're practically family to me.
And we talk shit about each other all the time.
Behind each other's back, in front of them, or however else.
That's not hate.
Even if it was, I wouldn't change shit.
That sounds like drama, and that's a shitty game people play to make their life artificially "interesting".
Words don't mean shit.
Also, hitmen.
| >you thought were friends
think harder. maybe you don't actually have any friends
*x-files theme plays*
| Maybe your friend was the hitman all along
| dont let people become your friend so easily. keep up barriers, make sure there is always a kind of distance between you and them. the ones worthy of friendship and trust have a way of wriggling through all that anyway, sometimes it takes a few years.
| Ditch em
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| Nothing's better than having a bad night and finding out one of your friends actually hates you. What do y'all do when that happens? I kinda exploded and left our gc, is that a normal response?