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When i think i found the ideal gf
| I just did the dealing because my father left me and my mother. Ik that don't justify but i needed to eat and i cant find a job here where i live (Brazil)
But i never had tried to fool any friend, any relative, anyone, even if it was an stranger.
Ik that im not a good person but im just trying to live, and knowing thay someone i care and i Give my life for os trying to fuck me makes me wanna cry
| I know i AM a bad person, but im trying to change.
I did a "vestibular" (idk How to say that in english) to try to enter a university and i think i did It.
Trying not to be an selfish bastard like i was, trying to not stab anyone that piss me of like in the past.
Not just because of her, but because of me.
But when you found out that the person that is the fuel of your "gentileza way of living" its trying to fool you and even her fckin father, that kills any hope i have in society
| How can i trust her If she steals from her own family?
What she would do to me?
Money is missing from my closet i think she acted again...
| I try to trust someone but everyone around me sometime stabs me in the back. Idk what to do anymore, idk if i can keeping living like this.
Sorry for bringing this shit up here, but the "friends" i had alreadyt tried to kill/fuck me up.
I don't have anyone to talk about this. Sorry.
| The only thing i wanted now was my mother, to hug her, i my her só much that makes me wanna cry, but i can't.
| Miss*
| Have you tried talking with her about it? Not in "where's my stuff!?" Kinda manner... just make it clear that you know what she did and that you want to help her out.
| I don't know you but I think you clearly are a beautiful and good person OP, no matter what you or other ppl might think :3 .
'Tis probably a very outdated/semi-mystical way of thinking ^^, but learning to smile when it is painful or you feel backstabbed is one of the most difficult things to do, 'coz humans are ugly, the world is shit and people don't change; but you can also still see the beauty of it all, the little things that make life a little more interesting.
| I mean, stealing is bad, and people know that; in her eyes, it's probably not a theft, or she thinks she had a right to do it. You won't change anything with reproaches except upsetting both of you; the most you can do is gently presenting her your take on the situation and live on without any negative consequence for her, hoping that one day she will accept your way of thinking and "convert" to your morality ^^
| (but if you manage to focus on the aforementioned bright and interesting things of life, which is by no means an easy task, people tend to naturally adopt your views, 'coz you will sort of "brighten" your surroundings or stuff like that ^^ )
anyhow, sorry for the probably very weird wall of text, and from across the globe, hoping that your day will still be a good one OP <3
| OP is just a naive retard.
| What kind of headphones?
What kind of things was she stealing?
What kind of drugs were you dealing?
What are we comparing here because imo drug dealing is much more dangerous and life effecting than stealing, so maybe get off your high horse
No surprise a drug dealer attracted a thief
| >>516978
1 - Cheap, but im not pissed because of the thing itself, im pissed because of the attitude.
2 - Shes rich, shes steals money from her family and now shes stealing from me, her broke bf
3 - i used to deal weed and later cocaine, and collected some debts too
4 - I did what i did because i was hungry, because i needed to eat, i didn't buy any clothes or shoes with that dirty money, but i was paying the bills, putting food on the table and trying to help my mother.
| I breaked up with her, i think thats the best for me.
>>489b81 "get off your high horse" well, i said im no good person so idk whats the point of you saying that.
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>>516956 Sadly i gotta to agree with you, but who isnt sometimes right?
| Im just trying to put the past behind and be better.
I know, whats done its done but maybe isnt too late to do the right thing. Im studying, i had found a good job as a bar manager and i just wished to have someone nice by my side, someone who want to be a better person like me.
Im just frustated because i was fooled, but that will never happen again.
>>a4df21 Thank you for your nice words.
| >>517015 Well uh OP i don't think there's advice i can give you but if you want to talk about your problems we g/u/rls will always be here for you
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| I found out that she steals money from her father and shes stealed my headphones.
I should break up oe try to reason with her?
Im sad as fuck because of this.
Years ago i was dealing drugs, but i was just selling my product, i didn't put a gun in anyones head and maked he buy drugs, all my clients where there because they wanted to.
Now when i see someone trying to fuck his own family and boyfriend idk, its just fucked up.