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How to have fun outside alone?
| Lel nigga, hook up with me and lets have sum fun, go out fuck these hoes, make sum bread uknowwhutimsayin
| World outside is full of nice things, get your sorry ass out there and be happy geez
| No-fucking-body gonna be sad while Mr. Pimpiest Sauce is around, WORD FAM
| Are u from NY? Meet me at Starlets, its on me, pussy & hennessy all night suwoooooooo
| The best thing for anyone in your situation to do is to accept that you have no purpose and stop caring about it. Figure out what's enjoyable to you, and do it. Enjoy your time here while you have it as much as you are willing to try.
| >>492243 consider therapy. Living like this can be a bad habit, and normies take it for granted that they know how to do social things with others. Consider some learning, art or woodworking, hands on stuff. I've also been given the suggestion to take a tour vacation, like pick a country and do a two week tour there. You can meet a lot of new people (fellow tourists) and everything is on rails, so you don't have to plan or worry about it...
| >>492288 thats right Fam
OP my nigga do u want a purpose to live? Ill give u one, your purpose to live is to be HAPPY.
REALLY, i was in the same situation as you, but as soon you accept the life is complicated and dont have sense is better. Your goal is to be happy, go and DO IT MY MAN, I KNOW U CAN
| How about mushroom picking and working out? Photographing might be worth a try too.
| >>492293 I tired therapy one time, but it seemed like a waste of money to me in the end. Never showed up to the second session.
I am very bad with people. I sort of lose personality when I talk with strangers, so I always get the unpleasant weirdo treatment. Just feel disgusted with myself afterwards.
That's why I want to find some lone wolf activity to do outside. Feels like as long as I'm hiding indoors stuff won't change, not getting enough xp that way. Yet outside sucks.
| Can't just be happy for the sake of it when I kinda hate myself. Stuff aint working like that. Not from NY my dude
Learning, art, woodworking aren't something I have to leave my flat to do. Not enjoying shroomhunts and working out.
I'm more of interested in what would you relative normies do if you had no friends to hang out with you and were sick of the indoor slow decades long suicide. Like not as a commitment thing, but some stuff to just go out and do on a whim and for free.
| >>493426 you went *once*? How can you become comfortable enough with them to be able to talk after going once? Go every week for 6 months... I think then you can decide. This isn't something you can get over in a week or two. It takes work and time, a lot of both, but you can change how you think and how your brain is patterned. Also consider meds... they increase brain plasticity and are potentiators for the changes you want to make...
| >>493438 It's about 40 bucks a week on average, shit I'll need a lot of money to do it for half a year to just make a decision on it. Was thinking bout trying betterhelp, but again stuff's expensive and I can't even express what's wrong with me. The woman I went to was probably thinking fuck that creep, thank god it's back to listening to normies after I left. Moreover some people I'm a bit closer to than "acquaintance" level say I'm fine. Parents especially say to not waste money.
| >>493444 yes, it can be expensive. All I'm saying is that it takes time to see results. It is a great tool if you are really dedicated and want to make a change in your life (same with meds). As for you being a creep... I suppose you need to find a therapist that you respect, and that gets you. You might be surprised... how do you know they aren't bored with normies and their silly little problems. Why did they become a therapist?
Parents are the opposite of objective.
| >>493444 I can understand why people you are close to say that. You aren't really how you seem until someone knows you well. So the goal would be, how to project that to the surface and get rid of the stuff between you now and you as you want to be. You're not "crazy", but there are some things in the way that are holding you back.
| Get outside hobbies, or work on projects in public places or groups. I don't have the whole human thing down but this works for me. Get involved in some creative shit to distract you from the nothingness that's your life. (Crawling in my memes)
Maybe distract a couple other people with the stuff you make too. Doesn't matter how shit it is aslong as your giving other neets some piece of mind. Be selfish with your compassion. Possibly even spur them onto do something similar.
| >>492243 I'm living that hikikomori life right now but I'm such a introvert it hasn't bothered me much yet, however the answer you need is basically find something you're interested in that requires you to go somewhere, for me my plan is to learn HEMA or archery if I ever need something.
| And yeah life has no inherent meaning but that doesn't mean your experiences are meaningless, find something your good at or know a lot about and help people and you might mean the world to them, it's all in perspective
| And failing all that say fuck it and do what you enjoy, which for me is staying right where I am ^-^
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| I'm getting sick of doing my neet hikikomori thing. But it seems worse outside. The world seems so empty. What the fuck am I even born for. Providing value to the community is damn stupid when that's the only purpose. Might as well die now rather than having to live a long and boring life earning food to prolong it.