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I develop crushes on ppl just because they are nice ro me and im not used to it.
| And?
| Any advice?
| Find gf
| mesag
| Same...
| If you're not used to it just don't let ppl be nice to you (don't talk to them basically) you're not loosing much anyways.
Practicing this for a while, works fine.
| mood
| >>477147 same... turned into a really bad situation for me at work. I was really depressed at the time. It was like the perfect storm of not feeling really bad about myself and having someone who really wants people to like her. 8 months later and still being treated like a murderer by HR, but I'm over it. Get some help for yourself. It's not a bad thing to like someone who treats you nicely, maybe it *does* mean something, but need to be able to control it.
| Its hard bc i think it stems from no one ever really showing much affection towords me
| Well that's not good.
Have you ever seen a abusive relationship on the news and wonder why did they date them? Well most of the time it's cause abuser actively seek people like you, that way they just need to pretend to be nice to hook you up.
Also your incel bait
| >>477248 how is posting on an anonymous textboard and saying "I develop crushes on ppl just because they are nice ro me" is the same thing?
Fucking beta.
| >>477257 who's nice to who? That phrase is so confusing.
Should I be mad because some fags are being nice to a beta on a textboard?
Or
Should I be mad because some woman just smiled at our morbidly obese op and he immediately developed a crush on that women?
And no, I'm not mad. Just stating the facts.
| Fuck, relatable as shit OP, unfortunately there really isn't anything you can do but isolate yourself from even people who are nice to you. Sounds fucked but honestly if you're older than like, 10 and you're not used to anyone treating you well you're too far gone at that point and no one's ever gonna be able to fix you
| >>477271 I'm not wasting my life. I'm rich as fuck. I can have the luxury of doing anything, anywhere and anytime.
| >>477281 and you choose to berate anons for their problems... lol
>>477280 OP, ignore this g/u/rl too, i don't know why this thread is attracting all the assholes. I'm in the same boat but it's getting better - try finding decent people to do small things with, like board game group or something. Doing stuff with no real commitment but still a positive social interaction helps me a lot
| I wish people would have a crush on me
| Ok wow. Was not expecting all of this. Btw im not a morbidly obese man...im a girl in my late teens. No one has ever had crush on me or shown any interest in me at all. Ive been sorta starved of any affection. And to top it off i dont have that many friends. In particular guy friends. So yeah whenever a guy is friendly towards me its a huge deal. And i dunno how to handle it.
| Ugh I just imagine a little 12 year old piece of shit giggling in front of his cum covered keyboard everytime I see someone call someone else a "beta" on the internet.
| Being nice doesn't mean that people want to get laid with you.
Grow the fuck up, stop being stupid and maybe someone will like you for real.
| >>477438 when you develop a crush with someone, automatically you want to get laid with him, nobody is so naive, even more a girl in her "late teens"
| Do u like corridazos?
| >>477465 nigga im having the patience of speaking the facts and explaining it all and u come here saying "no" like your word is some kind of law of physics.
Nigga fuck you
| thats why people get shot
| >>477349 so, are you op? Aside from all this "alpha" incel garbage, what can you do to take better care of yourself? There is nothing wrong with having a crush on someone. Does it cause you a lot of trouble?
| >>477549 no
OP, have you ever seen the Karate Kid? and the part where they say you have to choose one side or the other? I would say that's the situation you're in. If you want to stop having these crushes, you either have to stop interacting with people who will be nice to you, or do it so often that you'll get used to it. Good Luck!
| I get crushed on by a lot of people I'm nice to
I can't turn this swag off. I just want a peaceful life
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