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I've never had a romantic relationship and I'm scared I never will
| Why are you scared though? It's not a big deal if you really think about it.
| Don't worry lol. That's how you find one. I bet even if you had chance to date a girl you'd miss it cause you worry too much about stuff that doesn't matter. Just calm the fuck down and accept that our lives are futile and almost meaningless thus they're not worth worrying so much (if this word exists ofc). Fuck my phylosophy is too long for this board (and my english) so just don't worry or start having fun because of these worries (?)
| Life is no fun if you don't create fun yourself. I enjoy everything what is happening in my life. Even bad things (rejection, money, deaths and so on)
| go to gym. get educated. talk to girls. get friends. talk with people. be nice to people that helps a lot. do these and you will become socially not awkward.
| i literally cant have a relationship. it makes me fucking angry, and it feels like a dagger in my chest thats constantly being twisted. but are you even trying for one?
| I've been feeling the same way as you lads do. I'm one hell of a lucky bastard though - I'm currently in a relationship. Srsly, I though I would go the way of wizardry but one day a friend of my best friend messaged me and sent me birthday regards. We starded writing more often (she lives 400km away from me). After that the phone calls started and one day she decided to visit me. And oh boi, those were like the hardest 3 days of me life. We've been together for 5 months now.
| Don't give up lads - be open minded and talk to people. ^^ Years u are never alone even though you might feel like you are. If I made it, you can make it too!
| >>469547 "go the way of wizardry" hahahaha :) Some Terry Pratchett shit right there, but in all seriousness, great comment and you're right. What seems like a mountain can become a molehill overnight. It's all a matter of perspective.
| >>469522 so the part about gross queer with a fucked body... that is not a positive attitude :). I think you will find that the things that bother you the most about yourself might be really endearing to others, if only because you are so hard on yourself about them. One person suggested gym, yes, and treat your depression and self-loathing. It will take a long time, but you will never be as young as you are right now, so don't waste time. You can catch up, but you have to start.
| I don't get why everyone is so stressed about finding a girlfriend. If you don't have one, so what?
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Society and art. Society tells us that this is abnormal (even since childhood) and art well makes us feel even worse because you think you'll never get to experience these things.
| You're too closed minded. If you really are looking for a romantic partner, open your mind and your mouth to suck a nice fat cock.
| >>469550 You're welcome. <3 Life's just fucking random. Feels like a RPG with a bad script. :D I hope that OP listens to us. If you're not happy with yourself - find a way to improve what bothers you. Your kinks and little errors might be of great value to someone else though. Stay true to yourself, OP. And if you're feeling like a fat, dumb dude, start working out and become educated, lol. Life's as simple as that.
| You guys should go to a pshycologist. The way you all think is twisted and delusional about society. The fact you will have to talk to someone about your problems face to face will help significantly.
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| I'm 25 and a half now and it's clawing at me constantly that I not only have never dated yet but I don't have any prospects or social avenues to even MEET a girl who might like me... All these cute romantic stories I see everywhere are always of young love and I'm already too old for the purity and innocence of that era and I'm very scared help
I'm such a niche weirdo with weird interests AND a gross queer with a fucked body, so all girls are out of my league oh god why