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How to run away from home?
| Only have a learners permit, not a license yet. Also could I get in trouble with the government for this? And finally, any miscellaneous tips to survive on my own like this? Please Don't try to talk me out of this, ive made up my mind.
| Don't. Instead, endure it.
| >>453537 if I try to undure this any longer I might actually literally kill myself. I am absolutely not going to take this anymore.
| >>5414ea Listen to me, i don't care how bigoted your parents are, nobody cares about you running away, and running away is a crime. Deal with your parents, even if they are "bigoted."
Jesus christ.
| Plus its endure, not undure. Moron.
| https://www.1800runaway.org/
| >>453541 my dad has chocked me for shaving my legs. I'm going to get killed or kicked out by them anyways, so stop telling me to stop. If i wanted to be told to stop I would have called some hotline to tell me that.
| >>901311 Can you shut up? OP said to not to try to talk her out of it. Living with parents who wont accept you is hell and one of the reasons I tried to kill myself.
| >>453549 It's the only valid option though. If you're so unsure about how to survive by yourself that you have to ask dangeru then you're not gonna make it out there. It's safer at home.
Being a teenager is hard, we've all been there. But it gets better with time so enduring, maturing and learning is the best solution if you want to be yourself and independent.
| >Can you shut up? OP said to not to try to talk her out of it. Living with parents who wont accept you is hell and one of the reasons I tried to kill myself.
Yeah, but i'm just stating the truth, you miserable fag.
| If push comes to shove and you're still a minor, dropping the child protectivee service/child abuse nuke could rattle things up enough to escape
| you're a what?
perhaps you're being a whinesore, didya think of that?
you may by all means leave the place, then find out that you're retarded and that the real world is worse and perhaps you should man up after all.
damn hope the apocalypse comes. then all the crybabies will get a reality check when they'll have to fight for their lives.
bohoo, fucking catastrophy. some people had to cut their limbs off because they got run over by tanks. we have strayed too far from war.
| There's been a notable increase in toxity ever since the spamming, curios...
| How old are you?
| Omg, toxic people are everywhere, what happened to this place
| OP dont you have friends or relatives you can rely on? Whats your age? Instead of just running away, you should plan everything. Do you know what you gonna do to live? Where you gonna live? I guess not. First, take your driver license, with that you wont have a problem driving and it will make it easier to get a job
| Save some money, and think about where youre going. Try a place where you know someone, but not a obvious place where they can find u. Try to get in contact with this "someone" and ask for help, if he can get you a job, or maybe a place for stay for a while.
I know u can do it OP, be strong.
The world its a harsh place, but we can make it a Lot better
| I runned away from home when i was 15/16, im 22 now. Have my own place, two jobs and i gonna marry in the next year. It was very hard in the beggining but as the tike goes by, everything gets easier.
| time*
| you could try to call the cops on them
but if you are 100% set on running away,bring your phone, see if you can download a map of all the internet cafes, also of course bring a charger cable and plug adapter.
try to see if you could get a tent maybe, and also bring warm stuff, especially considering winter is gonna get worse
bring some food if you can, and please try to ration it so you don't eat it all
bring some medicine too
| but if you are really gonna run away, please try to do it after winter, it'll be extremely rough and might kill you depending on how cold it gets
and i know you said to not try to convince you to not do it, but i want to at least try
i'm a trans girl too, so i understand the pain and suffering you feel, you don't deserve any od this, your parents are monsters
as i said before, you could try calling the cops on them, especially if they try to hurt you again
| you have a higher chance of surviving if you get put into the system, instead of running away
and honestly OP, i don't want you to ever be hurt, you're a good girl, no matter what
i wish i could give you a hug, cause you deserve it
i know i can't convince you to not do it, but i wanted to try at least...
i hope you'll be ok OP, no matter what, we'll always be here for you
| >>453534 doing it to spite your parents is like committing suicide to spite your tormentors... it only ends up hurting you. Plus, *when* they find you, shit is going to be 10x worse.
>>453831 don't. Unless you have proof and someone to back you up, it won't work, and you will be in a much weaker position.
>>453904 don't make it like a camping trip, that will never work. It needs to be planned, you need to have a place to go, and use public trans with tickets purchased in advance.
| Is it ironic or I don't understand something?
| >>453947 abused trans girl is asking for tips to survive. It's sad to know that she is suffering yes, but I don't see how is this "ironic"
| OP please save up money and endure it until you 18, if parents abuse you call the cops, they should back off in that case. Try to find cheap place to live and basic job and don't forget to ask friends for help.
| Idk
google.com
| Try to talk to your parents, if they are not the convincing type, seek mental and LGBT groups out for advice and support. Calling the cops and CPS may be a last resort if your mental health, or current living situation, is dire(which it may be now).
If in all else, I had to deal an abusive alcoholic mum through my teen years. Which was complete hell so I can understand the plight of having a terrible parent, in time when you hit 20 or so, you would be more stable by then.
| >>454008 sorry, just don't want OP to go out in the woods and hide, that's not good :). Need to have a plan and a place to go, you know?
| >>453541 >running away is a crime
Pretty sure it isn't under any circumstance unless you're also evading taxes,debts or some shit like that.
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| I'm a teenage bisexual trans girl, and because of my bigoted parents, it's not safe for me where I live anymore. I'm planning on running away, either to live alone or at least to scare my parents so they stop hating me for who I am anymore. What things should I bring, how do I sneak out and get distance between me and then before they notice, where should I go? I live around Oklahoma city, is there any place I should consid4gping to in particular? I have a car I could use, but I