This thread is permanently archived
How can autistic neet make friends?
| we can't, it's over for us :c
| damn, feels wrong giving up.. Not like there'll be a retry
| Sometimes. If we try hard enough we may be able to scrape the bottom of the barrel.
| Find a discord channels that fits your autism, try not to be an asshole there, and hope someone will like you enough to befriend you.
| Find other autists (non asshole autists) and don;t be an asshole yourself
| Where do you find any of those? I start feeling inferiority to whomever I talk to and get angry when they actually start feeling superiority. I'm more of a literal autist as opposed to a quirky person. But I'm lonely.
| as an autistic person, I find that autistic people are the worst to make friends with. try polite introverts instead.
| I had an autistic friend. Had. I'm usually nice and polite, but as a former socially-anxious kid, I rely a lot on nonverbal cues. His inability to get it, and my inability to tell him things, ends up with us at each other's throat.
What I'm saying is, quiet introverts might not be the best to start with.
But if you try hard enough to be polite and make the problems clear, and she likewise, it might work.
| I met some quiet introverts and I can't make conversations with them. Don't know what to talk about. Best experience was with more open minded extroverts but they can't really become my friends or hold long enough as one, cause they have many way more fun options appear as time passes. It ain't bout misunderstanding even. It's about I'm not being fun to anyone else.
| I studied with other kind of autistic guy in uni years. He loved to talk shit about everyone else and I didn't like that. I tried to show with everything that I don't like that but he couldn't really switch. Apparently that amused him and he was certain that it was absolutely amusing. One time world economics teacher sat in front of us on other sensei's lecture after a break. And he's like: she most have went out to do booze or smokes lol. Like she's fucking right here you ass...
| I was on her good count before that and I was really working for it.. And that's the only guy that stuck around me even though most of the time I hated it. Most others avoided me and I got the clue and didn't force it.
| I am not autistic and don't have any friends, and because of that I can't blame it on some sort of illness or anything, just my own shitty super introverted attitude
| meet with people who share your interest with a similar level of passion. The internet makes that easy to do. Im autistic but I managed to make really close friends through voice acting projects and gaming.
| But how do I make friends in the internet? Been gaming for 10 years and didn't make one
| >>422919
When you find a nice guy you can talk to, don't stop there. Add them as friends and greet them when you're both online at the same time again. Follow their twitter or something.
Look for groups, join them, talk to people. Idk, it can be guilds in online games, or Discord, or a subredddit, or just through following the same place in social media.
| >>422919 this is where joining groups comes in. Maybe there's a gaming YouTube channel running a Discord and you can talk to some people there.
This thread is permanently archived
| In the least frightening way if possible please.