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| My girlfriend and I have been going out for a month, i was hitting on her when she declared her feelings for me, at the moment i was happy because i basically made her fall for me and therefore my girlfriend.
The firsts days i was really happy texting her and seeing her at shcool
But then i started thinking of texting and seeing her like a task or (idk how to put it) pain in the ass.
She is really sweet and sensitive that's why i don't want to break up with her

| But i feel like i don't like her that much anymore, idk if i shoul break up or try to keep going, and i feel like an douchebag for thinking of her like that

| Basically, what you just done is having mixed love with the desire of possession.
You accepted her, not for who she is, but for what she brings to you. In your case, maybe it's because she allowed you to boost your ego ( it's often for this reason), because you was searching for affection.

If you think what I said was true, breakup as soon as you can, because the more you wait, the more she will suffer when you'll break up.

| >>420290
This, also when breaking up try to make sure the other person knows that it's because of how you feel about your own feelings, and how you aren't sure that you're able to be a good partner in a real relationship yet.

Make sure that they know it's not because of anything they did or didn't do.

| Dude, If talking with her feels like that, u should break up.
Theres no point in keep a relationship where u find the another person boring.
Do it as soon as you can, this way she Will suffer less and both of you will have the chance of meeting the "right" person :)

| >>420290
I think this analysis is useful, but I wouldn't assume you wound up with her just because of that. There was genuine attraction to start most likely. You've just discovered now that she's not what you're looking for.

It's not something to that makes you a douchebag OP, the only mistake would be to let it last too long and hurt her more. Just be gentle. :) If you're interested in being friends with her or are in the same friend group, suggest a cooling off period too btw.

| Nothing worse than breaking up with someone and immediately seeing them an hour later

| Break up

| Well, what can I say, you’re an asshole

| Then i think i can break up with her, but she is really sensitive with this type of thing okus she's having family problems, but it is almost the end of the year so i think that i may break up with her at sope point when we are not having classes??, or is this some vague felling that it is no worth that much ro break a relationship i sincerely dont know what to do>>fccfc5

| Plus i think that she really loves me and I don't want jer to be that hurt

| Ask if she wants to fuck you.
If she says yes, let her be pleasured and after that masturbate if you didn't get satisfied.
This way stronger feelings may awake

| >don't like her *that much*
>But then i started thinking of texting and seeing her like a task or (idk how to put it) pain in the ass.

Wow, passion passes quick. Really unexpectedly. (it's normal, if you still think she's nice there is no reasons to break up)
As far as i can judge the problem is that she is way too intrusive in her need in communication/love/u/, so ask her to dont be that intrusive.

| >>0baf50 yeah but the problem is that she is really sensitive with that type of stuff, plus is not that i give her all of my love

| >>89558b she lets me touch her ass and tits, and of course im gonna take advantage of that, but i think that i dont want to be her boyfriend anymore

| "of course im gonna take advantage of that" man, looks like Giorno talking about his Gold Experience's abiliity. https://t.me/kemonation01/351945

>>420426 what the fuck, damn, she is feeling lonely and she's needing some attention and affection. I said to ask if she wanted to fuck you because then you could ａｓａ
ｇｅｎｔｌｅｍａｎ, motherfucker, pleasure her with what she would want be wanting to have, that is love with the

| one she love.
Use condoms, look her deep in the eyes, make sure she feels good, set a safeword, be gentle with her.
As I said earlier, if in the end you don't feel satisfied, just masturbate. She is needing this care now

| >>420445 lol wut? Being with someone because you feel bad for them is not ok. Pretending to love someone when you don't... also not ok.

OP, tell her you want to slow down. Take a break from the relationship, or the feeling of having to commit to a rel. Talk to her about family and make sure she understands that you do care, but put the rel. part on hold. You weren't ready, and she was needy, it was doomed from the start. Wait a few months at least before trying to restart it.

| >>420426 and for that same reason is that i eant to brek up, its not that i don't like her or im not interested in her nor her body, i just that I've realized that i was my own selfishness that lend me to being her boyfriend and therefore i cant call that real fellings and because of that i dont want her to be hurt with a guy that doesn't really loves her (me, i do care about her)

| >>420921
Second line: that i want to break up,
Fourth line : its just that i've
(god, am fucking useless at writing)

| >>420880 yeah ur right, but if i put the relationship on hold she might think that i am unsure (she once told the thing she hates the most is unsure people) it's not that fear for my freedom or future, it actually was that i just wanted a girlfriend just for the sake of having a girlfriend, now that i know that i wont do any good with that set of mind i want to end things that way

| >>420925 actually, what you are right now is unsure. She will respect you more (after getting over the initial pain) for making a mature decision to be honest and giving it some time so that you can honestly say "yes, I'm sure I want to date you". Girls are pragmatic, and though they seem sensitive, they usually have more support (friends to talk), and can recover from something emotional (emotional intelligence). Though she may feel hurt, she will deal with it and not fault you.

| Stop being a pussy and tell her the truth

| Then i have made my mind, i will break up with her telling her that i dont want a girlfriend rn and I'll do it in comfortable and firm way, thanks all of you for supporting and advising me in this decision, thanks to all of you

| >>421071 good luck to both of you.

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