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i cant fall in love
| The worst thing is that theyre great and patient people, they listen to me and try to understand, but eventually my lack of romantic feelings leads to a break up, and leaves me feeling absolutely terrible. Like, romance in theory seems great until im actually in a romantic relationship, and its really difficult for me to show the person i still really care about them. Whats wrong with me? (2/2)
| You probably just haven't found the right guy/gurl for you yet
| It's just you, yours view on love is different. You are just putting more efforts in building stable relations founded on truth than sending tones of lovely sounded words based on imaginery exaggerations. If you don't feel good with that you can always give your future's crushes small symbolic gifts.
| You may be on the asexual/aromantic spectrum, look it up. It is a real and valid sexual orientation, you are not broken. You may be interested in finding a Queer Platonic Partner.
| I have a similar situation to be honest. I find more exciting when I just crush on someone. Sorta like a secret, unreachable love. The times I end up dating the girl it's great the firsts months but the love ends up getting cold, and the girl gets bored and we end on a break up. I don't know if I'm a terrible boyfriend or something else is going wrong.
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| Ive encountered this a couple of times.. after hanging out with someone, we become great friends, and then they say they have a crush on me. We date for a few weeks, they shower me with compliments and love, but i cant seem to get attached. The thing is, before we start dating, im a lot more interesed and invested in the relationship, but the moment we start dating, i lose all interest. (1/2)