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how do you call off a long term relationship?
| Have them walk in on you while you're getting pounded by an old fat guy and pretend that you got ntr'd.
| just tell 'em straight up you pussy.
| Say u wanna talk with them, and tell them what you told us.
| >>412413
This won't work because I'm a guy. It would if I was a girl
>>412414
I wish it was as easy as that
>>412470
This, but I'm kind of afraid to hurt her. It may seem idiotic and ironic in a way. I want "us" to be just friends, not totally exile her out of my life.
I'm still trying to picture the worst case scenario. -OP
| >>412237 Don't be an asshole, be honest and tell her face to face. One way or another it will either end up nicely or badly.
| >>412511
Why wouldn't it work because you're a guy? If anything, it works better because it's now hard gay ntr.
| Sorry, but there's no nice and pleasant way to do something like that. But the best way is certainly to have a talk with her. When she's not upset about something else/is in a more proper state, sit down with her and talk. Say that you like her but you don't feel love. If you want to talk it out with her - tell her that. Maybe you just need something exiting and new. Maybe you just need to go your separate ways. (don't be selfish if she never wants to see you again). 1/2
| I don't know your relationship or age or anything. But one thing remains no matter what: You talk to her face to face. Just...spill out your feelings. It's hard. It's difficult. It's not going to be pretty and it's going to be emotional wreck. But that's what breakups are and I wish you the best of luck through it all. To both of you. 2/2
| >>ab1472
You can't just be friends after you've been romantic since it'll be shit for one or both of you. Once you've made the decision to bail, she has to go fully no matter what. Keeping an ex around is dangerous.
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| it'll make me feel guilty, thats for sure, but I don't wanna waste more time spending it with someone I don't love anymore.
the fire just died. 4 years was fun while it lasted.
How should I do this, g/u/rls?