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Hence forth i shall be know as TR/U/TH FAG
| You're in the right, fag.
Always tell the truth.
| If you're fat and you ask whether you look fat or not in something that to top it off is smaller than what you fit comfortably...
...then if you get offended is your own goddamn problem.
It's not like you told her she looked like a bloated greasy human sausage right?
| Why do fat ppl wear to small things? It just looks disgusting.
If they'd just wear too big things you wouldn't see the fat.
| well OP how did you respond? tone and word choice is important, if you said something assholish you probably made her go on the defensive
| UR a real piece of shit, OP.
Spouting "truth" doesn't give you carte blanche to be a ridiculous assfag. You can tell someone that their clothes don't look good without being a hurtful assfag about it.
Women already have enough problems with men being shitheads to them, enough problems with our society's narrative that if you're not some unattainable ideal that you're worthless.
Henceforth, you shall be known as ForeverAlone" b/c that's what you'll be if you don't learn tact.
| >>408074 >>408076 >>408079 >>408081 >>408133 >>408240
What's with all the hate and the boderline 4chan lingo, just grow a pair and don't interact with them if you hate fat people so much,out of sight, out of mind.
Also you'll end up alone with that attitude
| >>408245 >>408237
WHEW. OP got caught in an unconfortable situation with someone they didn't care about (based on how they talk about her) and might've been too brash when telling her the clothes didn't fit well. Why you hafta be so mad?
| >>408196 i told her, "no you look a little chub in that, not to bad though, maybe a size larger" AND THEY GOT TRIGGERED
| >>408255 I'm not mad about that I'm mad about this shit -> >>408262 like at least get some new insults or they can go get fucked with everyone on /Pol/.
I'm >>408245 btw
>>408310 you have the tact of a man with no arms, also being honest only make you a good person if you don't hurt other people feeling
Inb4: "I don't care about their feelings" that's why your a asshole, you don't have the empathy or tact to be a good person
| >>408245
I don't hate fat people, I don't even think "fat" is derogatory, it's not something widely considered a good thing but it isn't demeaning in and of itself.
| The worst part about this thread is that OP is not wrong or right, simply entitled to their own opinion of how other people look, they simply assume they are right because of their own opinion.
Saying her friend "lied" when she said she looks good clearly shows that OP has a single-tracked mindset and way of looking at things.
On the contrary, the girl shouldn't have asked for another person' opinion and then gotten upset because their opinion didn't match their own.
| There is no such thing as truth when it comes to subjective opinion unless you are innately the one lying about your opinions.
Yes, you told her the subjective "truth" of your own opinion: That the shirt didn't look good on her in your eyes. That's fine, you told *your* "truth". But clearly, her friend did not have the same opinion.
You're not special for telling somebody your opinion, don't get uppity and feel good about having something that everybody else has.
| And don't get butthurt because your delivery of your opinion was dickish. You could have said "I don't really think it looks good because its a little tight on you in my opinion", and if you had said that, they probably wouldn't have gotten as triggered.
It isn't a gender thing. It isn't a weight thing. It isn't a truth. Its all opinions. Everybody has them, aeverybody is entitled to having them, and none of them are objectively wrong on subjective topics that aren't fact driven.
| Tl;dr: You're not cool or special for expressing an opinion, you're just like the rest of us on this rock, and you're just as entitled to think the top looks bad as she is entitled to think you're an asshole for saying that. Ironically, you're the triggered one here now, not her.
Funny, you two aren't that different are you?
| Did she ask you or her friend? I could see how she'd be upset if she want asking you and you just butted in
| >>67643b >>408133 hey, i'm fat and i'm not going to wear a trash bag because you dont want to see my fat, i'll wear my size, nothing bigger than that
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| this chick got mad at me becuase she asked if she looked fat in a shirt and her good friend LIED and said she didn't, but told her the truth and they BOTH got mad at me and told me i have to start considering other people's perspective. THE BITCH WEIGHED LIKE 22Olb!! Wear a large not a medium.