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need advice
| Realize family is bullshit and develop a drug problen of your own
| Get out before things get worse
| Ask them for some help, booght and individualy for different problems. This problems mast be real an not easy to solve. They will have less time for fight and maybe would try to cooperate
For example ask were get some job, what to do after university, whau to talk with girls, anysing like this
| Also you can try to ask your father to do something with you
Like fishing, plaing football, anithing he did with you in your childhood or would like to had done.
Or try to find out about his hobbies from his childhood to carent state. Then bring them back.
This maight solve drinking problem.
| Kill them both and keep their bodies as meat in the freezer.
| Mother can be big problem.
Depression wouldn't go anywhere waile father drinks. So you need to be nice with her, help a lot and don't make more troble.
And the main thing:
I am not an expert, i am not sure am i right. Good luck!
| >>407607
False
Parents are there to look after you, you as their child aren't there to look after them.
Yes after they have lived their lives and are old and almost dead you can return the favour and look after them.
But right now it's their responsibility.
And if they are shitty to you just go and have a nice life.
| >>407609
It is not false, it is different.
Booth ways are good, some is harder and some is easier but there is not right solution.
I agree whith you, and my advaice is actual only if he want to help them. If no he shoold use your advice.
| >>407611
It's not about wanting to help them, it's about being able to help them.
And I'm sorry to disappoint you but he isn't their sex therapist. Also he isn't their psychologist.
He is their fuckin child. And what should children and teens do? What ever the fuck they want. Be unreasonable, hurting their parents, living their best years of their life.
They shouldn't be in-between a blooby marriage fight.
| >>407611
They shouldn't get blackmailed with love and presents, nor lies and hate about the other parent.
And they also shouldn't manage their dads fuckin alcohol problem or their moms depression.
The parents have a responsibility. And ofc it's hard as fuck, but maybe they should have thought about that before making a child.
The responsibility lies on the parents, to make the children happy, healthy and not total fuck ups.
The responsibility doesn't lie with the children.
| >>407613
I'm not saing the children mast solve parents problems
I'm saing if children want to solve this problem then he shoold
Im absolutly agree with you, exept one thing - child isn't helpless.
You dont need medic degree to stop blood, you dont need to be a superman to save girl from booling. So you dont need to be psycologist to manipulate people. Child aroud 8 alredy can make his parents do a lot without realizing it. If he is teenager, he can do it on porpuse
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| parents broke up, thinking of heading to my sister's place until they stop trying to tear eachother apart, can't work with them yelling at eachother (we still live together because she can't find a place to stay) but then i can't monitor the situation.
>mom has depression
>dad drinks alot
wat do