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Am I heartless /u/?
| How old are u OP?
| Mmm, it sucks but its also common, so I wouldn't say you'd be that deep.
Eventually you'll probably have to break his heart tho, since it sounds like he's super on the fence about being trans.
Especially when you said >he's illusioned about getting lovey dovey when we meet and all
lmao we all know how that turns out.
my advice, if you're willing to take it- validation is great and all, but things will suck less if you break things off now instead of later.
| If you don't feel the same way about him that he feels about you, then you're taking advantage of him and you should stop being dishonest.
If you're concerned that you won't be attracted to him physically that's probably something your two should talk about.
| If you dont feel the same way, it's safe to say you should probably just break things off.. otherwise it could get ugly the longer you drag it out. If validation is all you're seeking, just break it off in a super nice way and stay friends. Maybe you'll still get validation?
| Just break his heart and find validation within yourself (instead of others).
Or, you can be an ass poundingly gay cock monger with fresh brown and white lipstick and breath that smells like shit because of some internet stranger's precious little feelings.
But fuck, your life. Maybe you want that.
| >>407380 fuck off, we're all cock mongers here (or wish we were lol)
OP - yeah, if you're not attracted to him you need to make that clear, the sooner the better. but hopefully at this point you can still be friends, the longer you lead them on the worse it'll be even if you don't have bad intentions
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| G/u/rl-19-fuckin dork.
I am dating a trans boi 17 he's great in all what personality refers to except absurd level of NEETness and well he has not transitioned. He's ilusioned about getting lovey dovey when we meet and all (yup long distantce) and because of looks, genitalia and such I might end up breaking his heart.
I feel bad about it but the validation I get from him is so marvelous and knowing he loves me is so wonderful.
What circle of hell am I going to be in /u/?