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Why is it easier for g/u/rls to fuck?
| They can also get free stuff for sex. Just imagine how easy it is to be woman if your only problems is rapes and prejudiced attitude towards you (which is males problem too, but we have no right to whine about it)
| >>403791 >only problems being rapes and prejudice
That's pretty damn far from the truth amigo. We got shit parts of our life too.
| Though women can get laid easier assuming it's men their after. Other women...not so much. Literally no one wants to make the first fucking move holy shit
| It's not boys can use grindr any time. Just message an ugly dude and be like "I'll let you do anything you want to me" I guaranfuckingtee you'll get fucked that very day.
| >>403813
why do you think either has it harder? both of them have their own problems. instead of throwing a hissy fit that women have them too, why don't you do something about your own?
| lesbians seem to get laid easier than straight girls
think they just naturally become good with flirting idk
| >>403826
What do you mean? Can you be more specific?
Also I acknowledge that women and men have their own problems. And I thinj that men have much more harsh problems and almost no social prerogatives/support. Please prove me wrong.
| >>403789
Straight girls have to be more careful when selecting a partner since they are more likely to be victims of sexual violence than their male counterparts. There are also unattractive and/or timid women, it's not as easy as it sounds like.
| >>403826 I never said either has it harder. I just said we both have problems. Nor am I downplaying male problems, just objecting to the statement rapes and prejudice are their only problems because vagina
| >>403813 I can't speak from a male perspective with full accuracy, but we can both agree life is a bitch to everyone no? Depression, family deaths, disappointing the fuck out of yourself and everyone around you, serious illness/injury does not care who the fuck you are.
It is a big shame men are expected to never show weakness in the face of these that women are though, but times are changing.
| >>403836
Men are more likely to become mentally-ill or injured tho. Life is bitch I guess, but it's even worse if you have a dick because you'll get fucked not only by life itself but also by society.
| >>403844 just asking, do you have a good support network to lean on? Even if society is a cunt, select inviduals around you can really help. Even if men showing weakness is stigmatized as a whole, most people who aren't retarded know that nobody is the ubermensch. If your bros don't back you up, they are not your bros and are complete faggots of the unfun kind.
Also fuck my typing in the earlier post. *but women can
| Because the acceptable possibilities for men to make themselves attractive or behave successfully in society are wonderfully limited.
Women have a full range of acceptable behavior, whereas men don't. Women are allowed (even if begrudgingly) to do almost everything men are allowed to do. Meanwhile men are just scolded, scorned and laughed off if they stray from a very narrow path.
(1/2)
| Thus, all the poor sods that don't have a go-getter attitude by nature, aren't blessed with stunning looks, or don't have athletic interests; are left with exactly jack to build a sexed identity around.
This builds up into a negative feedback sex life, which in turn means men can't even really start to "discover themselves" to know where to develop themselves, and in turn a lot of "men" aren't really men, >they're just eggs of not even they themselves know what.
2/2
| ...anyways the only thing that lies down the road of questioning this is an incel-type mentality, so EVEN IF you're going to reinvent yourself, or shooting for a wild tangent; you're better off not giving it a second thought.
You're fucked, yes. Or rather you are *not*. The thing is pondering the problem will only get you further down the hole.
| >>403833
Sexual violence in the sense of rape yes
Sexual violence in the sense of groping to test out the waters, I'd say no.
I never touch a women first because I fear to create a trauma for them. Many girls I know through living as a Lumpenproletariat were raped. And most men don't realize how much shit women have to endure in this area.
But I was groped so fucking often by women. Sometimes even men. But I don't care tbh, I see that I send them false signals.
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So women grope without repercussions.
Also, even if you are a ugly girl, you can fuck around as much as you want. Because 80% men are too afraid to even ask out girls in their league/above their league.
And the other 20% just gropes and rapes and fucks around.
100% of guys I know have fucked really ugly women because they approached them.
| >>403859
>Sexual violence in the sense of groping to test out the waters, I'd say no.
The double standard in this makes my blood boil.
Last time some random girl intentionally brushed against me I had to restrain myself to not make a scene on the spot and not yell to her fucking face
>Do you even know me? NO, RIGHT? THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU TOUCHING ME.
| >>403845
Its not a problem about individuals finding their right support network.
Its about statistical facts.
Men suffer from more violence, prisons around the world are full of men, economically speaking the highest and lowest earners are men (sadly enough the highest earners are called the 1% for a reason), men kill themselves more often than women.
And men have to act strong, be successful, have a big dick and be tall.
And have to endure toxic masculinity all their life.
| Are you a boy?
| >>403863
Word.
Being a man is S.H.I.T.™ right now.
It amazes me not at all in the slightest that traps, MtFs, genderfluids and whatnot are on the rise.
Those people are going for chances that even if harder to reach they simply wouldn't have at all as men.
| Hey, stop saying only women can be sluts. I'm a g/u/y and I wanna be a slut too!
| >>403867
That's the problem. I want to be a slut too.
But we can't without giving into toxic masculinity. We could all become pick up artists, don't respect personal space, and become part of the group of why men are hated in today's liberal world.
But do we really want to do that?
I don't.
| This thread is just pathetic. Like most of the threads here with the topic girls anf boys. Yeah Women have life easy. Poor, poor boys. Is this the new Incel platform?
But i have a question though: Why do you guys care so much about your "sexlife"? It's just so ridiculous. Dont you have other reasons to live? I've seen many threads where women aren't even seen as a human. Always as a possibility to fuck or romance. Dont you have other important things to complain about?
| >>403875
Just as always: If you have a dick, you aren't even allowed to have feelings about anything, much less voice them.
If we see as normal, acceptable and even positive that people have casual sex; it stands to reason that people incapable of getting it are going to feel abnormal, inferior and in general bad about themselves.
>I've seen many threads where women aren't even seen as a human.
This is very definitely not my stance.
| >>403875
Virginity has an important in socialization. I guess you don't get it since you have easy access to sex. But for men it means being non-attractive to half of the globe.
| >>403875
60 years ago people would have called girls hysteric if they told any of their problems and feelings in public.
I'm a radical feminist who is for the destruction of gender. Because not only women suffer from it in this society.
I know I could start groping girls, fight with people, be a dick and don't show any feelings. Because that would be socially acceptable.
But I'm not that type of person.
Which is why I'm against toxic masculinity.
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But its just funny that even as a radical feminist, and as a communist, and a POC you aren't allowed to talk about problems specific to your gender.
Like the everyday violence men have to endure. As a man you have to watch your tongue to not get beaten up. You have to watch at who you are looking, because they might think you are looking at them funny. You are more likely to get killed, or beaten.
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Even the police harasses men more than women. And of course in the US its mainly POC, but we have other countries around the world too. Countries in which there aren't many immigrants, or statistically speaking not enough immigrants to fill the prisons.
As a man you have to archive something in your life to be accepted. Women can be housewives and its socially acceptable. And I agree, that they shouldn't be housewives, but what if I want to be a houseman?
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Every critique about their gender, told by a men gets shoot down immediately. By men with toxic masculinity who call you a pussy or by liberals who don't understand that both men and women are oppressed be gender stereotypes.
| >>403875
>Dont you have other reasons to live?
Somehow the importance placed on their sex life by people who fuck 3 different people in the same week is never questioned.
| Women definitely get away with a hell of a lot more emotional abuse than men, and often perpetuate harmful ideas about masculinity and emotions in a man being "gay" and bad.
Really, a lot of people like to act like toxic masculinity is men's fault, but in reality women act as the gate keepers for heterosexual masculinity. If they'd be as accepting and supportive of sensitive men as they pretend, there wouldn't be a problem.
| That said, women suffer far more sexual abuse, and despite it being controversial, women are absolutely discriminated against in the work force, and end up being scrutinized no matter if they decide to focus on their job, a family, or really any life choice. They just get thrown under the bus for some reason.
| >>403898
Everyone has problems with discrimination. Even men. Even women are able to discriminate someone.
| >>403881 literally nobody cares, you aren't starting a conversation with a list of people you fuck and if you are you should stop, and if you wanna avoid the question you can just avoid the question like "I don't wanna talk about it" or "it's kinda private"
The only person who might care would be your so and that's cause your basically inexperienced and will do something wrong the first time
| >>403903
>literally nobody cares
Most of the rest of the posters seem to disagree
>you aren't starting a conversation with a list of people you fuck
It'd surprise you how often I'm treated to tales of sexual exploits I have zero interest in learning about.
>The only person who might care would be your so
I don't have problems keeping committed relationships, I'm just an anomaly on people's sex radars only fuckable if by miracle you fall in love with me, and that only for bi ppl
| >>403789 >>403791 get out and prove it then
Woman don't get free sex, woman get flirted cause society made that the norm.
Also not all woman, like man, some are unattractive and will have a harder time finding someone to fuck.
What I'm trying to said is: your wrong and everyone should stop with this incel nonsense before I lose the faith on this site
| >>403909 half of the posters in this thread sound like incel, Wich I'm not sure where they come from cause I swear they weren't here a month ago.
Seriusly danger/u/ ita becoming more of a chan and it's beginning to suck.
>>It'd surprise you how often I'm treated to tales of sexual exploits I have zero interest in learning about.
What are you in highschool? Just change the conversation or stop it all together, it's not much of a problem
| >>403909
>>I don't have problems keeping committed relationships, I'm just an anomaly on people's sex radars only fuckable if by miracle you fall in love with me, and that only for bi ppl
Anomaly would be if you had 2 dicks and a pussy, being virgin it's mundane as fuck cause everyone is or was one and since the human being that are worth loving have empathy they'll just ignore it or help you as much as they can cause they know how embarrassing it could be.
| >>403917
You do know that virgins act differently? And because they're different in a bad way they (me) have much less chance of getting puss
| >>403917 I'm not a virgin, I just can't have sex at all unless a bisexual person happens to fall in love with me.
| holy shit this thread
| Women can more easily have sex than men because men are more expendable than women, plus the social hive mind just makes it that men must be breathing fuck machines and women must keep theyr virginity at all costs
| >>403930 like in general? Then no they don't, you don't go walking thinking "gotta put my head down since imma a virgin" you just walk, the Chad vs virgin meme it's just that, a meme
If we're talking about sex then yeah but it's cause you are inexperienced and that normal, nobody will care about it.
| >>404053
It's not a meme, or at least not *only* a meme. I've got a friend that recently started fucking everything that moves and he's much more unsufferable now.
| >>404053
I suppose you're a woman? Cause it's not a meme. Like I said, if you're a virgin you feel like a complete loser, cause girls can have several sex partners each year and you couldn't even get one in your entire life. That means you're unattractive to half of population. At least that's from my point of view. And why do you just call it a meme? You don't even have a dick how could you possibly understand virgins like myself?
| >>404145
you automatically assumed they're a woman because they don't center their whole personality around their virginity
i don't think being a virgin is your problem here
| "Girls have it easy"
lol try being a girl in muslim country
| Hum.
Please tell me I don't actually have to care * that >>404145 * much for not having had sex before.
| >>404177 >>404209
Arranged marriage at a young age, not allowed to wear what you want, not allowed to drive, not allowed to go out without male guardian, testimony counts as half of guy's testimony, doctrine about how good wife is the one that always do what her husband wants, polygamy.
| >>404177
Why does it matter to us? I think we were talking about our lives. I don't care about women with no rights somewhere. I care about women having all rights, quotas and prerogatives in my country
| >>404235 Believe it or not, we live in the same world as those Muslim girls, so yeah. If you wanted to preclude women not in your country you should have said "easier for girls in [your country]."
| >>404178
you really, really don't. you might get made fun of or see virginity get made fun of, but at the end of the day why should you care what others think? live ya life
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| They can fuck around more
They easier find sex
They have it easier with flirting
They can just grab the bois by the boipussy to test out the waters