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Is this normal?
| >>403722 and she has this cute little ring through her nose ( I generally don't like stuff like that but damn she is cute) and her hair is long and curvy! I haven't stopped thinking about her since yesterday, I couldn't watch my show, I wasn't concentrated enough at the pool and performed poorly and everytime I think about her I get this shot of ecstasy that makes me go awww... I was thinking of talking to her but I don't know if I would get a chance...
| Just cach her after lesson and ask for a walk
| >>403727 a walk? That seems a little too much tbh... I know a time I have a chance to talk to her alone, but it's not 100%
| Ayy you just fell in love :3
>>403727 I'd say don't ask her for a walk, ask her to go out for a drink!
| Gg op same happened to me now with school starting
| Yeah, I guess I will try to talk to her in the break and maybe I will take it from there, like I only need her name and where she studies and I will find her on Facebook and then it's a little bit easier I guess... Damn if this feeling could be a little chiller, it's so fucking intense I forget how to breath sometimes
| Yep, called a crush. Shits normal yo
| Do something about it or forget about her already. You could also Take A Third Option and become friends with her.
Seriously. Crushes are the most stupid thing ever. The only thing your feelings are accomplishing is getting in the way of whatever you want to do.
You want to fuck her? Your feelings will make you nervous and make it harder.
You want to be her friend? Your feelings will make you suffer for it
Even when you want to forget, they'll make it harder.
| >>403854 heh, I guess I would like something more than just fucking... I'm lonely you know I wish I could try beeing closer to someone and stuff..
| >>403856 I think I'm going to leave the thread because I can't give you either hope or advice.
You still seem to be talking about feelings and emotions, which aren't going to take you anywhere.
| You'll have to look the least creepy as possible, approaching her AT THE RIGHT MOMENT or else you fucked up. It's quite hard to know what to do. Either you have the experience and know or you just fuck up and learn for the next time. As >>403854 says, you'd better do something about it. Doesn't need to be now, but definetly sooner than later. Good luck with it. You're both doing the same "hobby". That's an advantage.
| >>403879 yeah that sounds super scary, considering the fact that I get panick attacks only from traveling with the subway..
| very nice
| Those last two g/u/rls are giving bad advice. The one who is all about feelings being bad clearly never heard of, like, long term relationships. Sex and friendship aren't mutually exclusive and it's fucking ridiculous to claim they are. The bit about how hard and dangerous it is - overstating the problem. Don't worry too much, just talk to her like you would to anyone else, see if she likes you. If you're too worried about screwing up you won't do anything at all - the biggest mistake.
| >>403959 my problem is that she is always around someone.. I'm pretty confident that if I hace the chance to talk to her alone and actually take it I would at least be able to make a friendship. I had one chance and screwed up.
| Just don't get obsessive. Speaking as someone prone to obsession, it won't help anyone. Just treat her as a girl you know, that you think is cute. If something develops, fine. If nothing happens that's fine too, don't feel bad about it, it just means she wasn't right for you.
| >>403962 yeah I learned about obsession the hard way.. 2 years I just spend following a girl around and only thinking about her, grades, friendships and my sanity were pretty damaged because of that, will definitely try not to do that again, not a pleasant experience
| >>403939
Emotions are bad because they'll only get in your way as I already explained.
>>403959
>The one who is all about feelings being bad clearly never heard of, like, long term relationships.
Exactly the opposite. Long term relationships is the only thing I've ever had, 3 so far.
You like someone? Ok fine. But crushing on them is just plain stupid and self destructive. It can't be 100% avoided but it should be avoided as much as possible anyways.
| >>404007 well I guess I'm just in this state of my life of having a lot of crushes, besides I'm super shy for a boy when it comes to girls, so I hardly ever take the initiative...
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| Dude just say hi and ask if she wants to go grab a cup of coffee after you get her number
| >>404052 you don't know how hard that is, and what do you mean say hi and get her number? Just go in 3 more people I haven't talked to and be like "oh I just want to talk to her sorry"
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| I haven't left my home much this summer and this week I signed up for a IELTS course in English, it's a 1 week course every day and the course actually started with a 1 session last week and then I saw this very very cute girl, at first she looked stunning and I thought about her a couple of times and yesterday I got a better seat so I can look at her more ( what a creep) and I just can't find anything that's wrong with her her face is absolutely perfect