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How the hell do I hold a conversation
| Small talk is a taboo term imo
What the hell do you do with small talk? "Hows the weather?"
Small talk isn't useful or good at building relationships.
Do what I do: ask what kind of stuff they're up to.
Go off of what they say and try to bring up relevant topics, and go back and forth about your opinions on things.
| So more of trying to find things we have in common?
| Pretty much.
| If you're talking abouy the rain, speak of it as a beast rolling on it's day.
Show what you know in small talk, but don't tell them the cards in your deck.
Just be sure you put some good ones in it.
| Fuck I hate small talk so much, I work on the counter at a café and I can't small talk to save my life, I think it's probably because I couldn't care about people.
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| Seriously, I've tried. But I'm shit at small talk, so it always just trails off.