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| you know, i dont really know anything about "incel culture" or any subtext or hidden meaning behind the word or where it came from or what kind of people use it. i just know i havent and will never have sex or have a romantic relationship with someone and it bums me out and feels really lonely.
| >>366012
I just don't think much about it, honestly. I haven't been in a relationship myself, nor really concerned myself with finding one. I don't base my personality and mood on that particular failure, I have a whole host of other, more pressing screw ups to think about :P
Really though, I think being bent out of shape due to not having a partner is unnecessary. In fact, that extreme desire may prove to be more harmful than being alone would.
| No.
| I'll just paste what some other anon said:
The one thing that really sucks about incels, is that just being socially awkward, shy and overall inactive towards getting into a relationship due to self-esteem issues, while completely realizing it and trying to better oneself, still gets people bundled up together with some absolute shitheads who think they are privileged to relationships and sex because of some stupid ass reasons and can't even accept their own flaws.
| >>366036 it is a projection of your lack of respect for yourself. The thing you think you want is not the answer, and getting into a relationship as a mentally unhealthy self-loathing mess will only make it worse. To have intimacy, you have to be confident in yourself and to be a good partner you need to stand on your own. Any relationship not built on two solid healthy people will end up consuming one or both. Instead of being more than the sum of its' parts it becomes less!
| >>366427
its true that im not the most mentally healthy individual, but im not the protag of that Nhk show. the reasons why im celibate are not due lacking positive traits i guess... honestly, explaining would just derail this already shitty thread. just pretend that im unicornsexual or something and can only date mythical creatures.
| >>366453 the unicorns are a projection of your inner pony. You don't really want to fuck unicorns, you want to hang out with bros and do bro stuff. You could be, like, bronies or something!
Not sure if you are >>4edbef, but it was directed toward her comment about wanting a relationship so/too much...
| >>test<<test
| How do I turn the red off?
| incel culture is just cancer, they set all these fucking demands and it's like a step backwards in evolution to the point where a bunch of angry virgins decided to take it out on "chads" and "staceys" because they are social outcasts.
| sure fam i can initiate normal fucking converation, don't need to fucking act like an absolute twat because women laugh at you lmao
| >>366510
yeah my id is spastic
but i do want intimacy with the things i want intimacy with. however its an impossibility. i dont care much for bro-ing around tbh.
| >>366658 the bro part was just joking, although honestly, it is important to have guy friends too. I don't, and it increases the isolation.
The fact that you said it's impossible makes it so. Why is it impossible?
| Basicly incels are really depressed ppl that went really far down the neet rabbit hole or just had some really shitty life experiences with other ppl and closed shut in their coccon of comfort zone to a point that don't want any contact with others with the fear of being hurt again
| >>366952
im a pedo shitter. so i guess not impossible just not OK. its unethical for me to not be one of these incel things.
| Fuck girls am i rite?
| anyone labelling themselves incels are no longer virgins because their minds have been completely fucked
| >>367569 haha :)
>>367037 so you have fucked up fantasies, welcome to the club. That doesn't have to define you, and that doesn't mean you can't have a relationship. Your mind is flexible, much more so with therapy and meds, and you can change if you want to. It's that simple.
| >>368037
pls no therapy no meds thanks. im not fucked up who wouldnt want to cuddle a smoll grill?
| >>368248 only if they're 3D...
>>368077 if your smol grill fantasy is making you think about becoming an incel, that is when the things are important.
| >>368294
i have never found adults attractive, female or otherwise. people act like pedophilia is some kind of acquired fetish. its and inseparable part to my sexuality. being told to stop bitching and date a petite woman is unhelpful and insulting. i dont have much choice but to reluctantly hold onto my virginity. if that makes me one of those incel thingies theres not much i can do about that.
sorry my id changes in every post btw
| This thread went to shit real quick
| I don't much care for them but I really don't like how there's this other group of people that go out of their way to make fun of them (like OP), which of course just fuels their negativity more.
It's like middle school never ended for these people (both groups).
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| How many of you guys here identified as an incels? I just read incels forum and I really have a good laugh
that negativity and depressive thought on life, no wonder people there are single as fuck