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Suicidal gf
| *cross fingers that this is not a LDR
Ok, just be there for her and watch stuff that you joke about in front of her.
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| How long have you two been together?
She needs to seek mental health, relationships like these can turn toxic quite easily.
I had a friend whose abusive ex-gf told him over the phone "You have to talk to me because I am going to kill myself and if you hang up on me and I do it the police is going to charge you for denying help" (It is a crime in my country).
Apart from that, if you are ever unhappy in the relationship you could not get out, same goes for her.
| >>da1b50 The thing is it's genuine, it's not meant as a threat. We've known eachother for a good amount of time and it's not that I don't want to be in the relationship but that either way I'm stuck in it. This is in no way meant to be narcissistic but I may be one of the only things keeping her alive.
| She needs professional help there is no way around it.
| After she gets better with care break up with her.
| Run
| Be with her ?
| No I plan on staying with her, she's important to me.
| Professional help, Be there for her, all the obvious stuff.
But in my dumb option. I think you should just try to make her life just a little bit more joyful. Enjoy stuff like videogames or movies together. Go out on dates and try to have fun. Because she'll probably notice if you start acting "too careful" around her and she doesn't need to think your pitying her or something like that.
Just do stuff you would do in a healthy caring relationship basicallly.
| Let her know that you're no perfect man. Whine about your problems like she'?π
| I'm in a similar situation
Except I don't love her anymore and I want out but I'm afraid what she'll do if I leave her.
| Make funeral arrangements while she's there to advise you.
| >>346047 >>345300
Maybe you could encourage them to seek mental health (either public or private) if movement is an option there are psychologists that work via Skype. If any of that is not an option for some reason, they maybe reading books about depression and stories of people who suffered it; good self-help books can help some people a lot.
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| >>346047 you can't be with someone out of guilt. If you don't love her you don't love her. Frankly, a lot of people like to use themselves as ransom to trap people they want around. I can't say how honest she is since I don't know her, but if I were you I would dump her immediately.
You can still be a supportive friend, but you can't just accept responsibility for someone else's life.
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| I didn't really know where else to post this. To keep it short she's really important to me. I'm like a lifeline to her, saying things like if I weren't around she'd probably kill herself; I'm not kidding she's actually serious take my word on that. I guess what I'm looking for is advice or just some sort of advice or what I should do.