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How does anyone find a girlfriend
| Use one of the apps anyway?
Or let someone on Danger/u/ dominate you lol
| How would your parents know you use a dating app anyway? Do they check your phone?
| There are g/u/rls worldwide, you could date them!
| They feel a mutual attraction to one of their female friends and start dating. That's how.
| >>325152 calm ^^
Don't use dating apps, they are for noobs.
Maybe visit some communities, discord servers etc. Or visiting cons etc.:)
| genetics
everyone who uses this site has the foreveralone gene
sorry, op, but you're going to die alone
| You should focus on making friends first. Even make friends with girls just to practice talking to them.
| >>325731
Nope, not even girls will find themselves in a relationship for doing nothing.
People meet people to become acquaintances, hang out to become friends, and then try to progress into a relationship if the feeling is mutual.
If you think relationships appear out of thin fucking air, then you're either profoundly retarded or completely lacking any amount of social experience, likely due to the fact that you never talk to anybody, or due to the fact that you're 12 years old.
| >>325152
u need 2 kiss her ass, give her presents, walk around w/ her, fix her issues, obey her orders... and then she will drop u cuz she had another bf all the time she was dating w/ u
and she would do the same thing w/ him as soon as she gets bored
| Lower your standards it's easy to find anyone if you lower your standards to nothing.
| its a matter of being drunk in the right place
| >>326789
I know shit from my life experince and I bet you're going to get a guy sometime lol (if you're not too old I guess)
>>326805
Lol, I wasn't shittalking it's just that you don't want to admit truth (why?)
Like really it's not a bad thing that society works differently for women but I can't understand why you're trying to tell me that both sexes are equal in these things (when they're not).
| I'm not telling it's absolutely impossible for a shy man to find a chick but most women prefer more confident guys. But many men prefer shy girls tho. Don't fucking tell me that many women love unconfident men you know yourself that it's fucking bullshit.
| hmm, just be yourself and dont live in dispair. Eventually, you will found someone that love u, just wait and let the destiny work on it. im trust u
| The cancer here is strong, why is there so many lost g/u/y here to start with?
And then, wtf g/u/rls ?
It doesn't need much efforts to understand how social relationships works. Mutual give and take link.
If you're desperate, identify what the people need and want, give them and rejoy in the illusion of having relationships... :3
| >>329884 I can understand that. And I had my share too. But i don't think that complaining here and lamenting about how much the girl don't love them will help in anyway.
I get being desperate, I get that some may need/want/ask for help. But if they need it, they have to listen and understand. To bury their own head and lamenting over and over won't help them in anyway.
Better slap their asses hard and start working on bettering theirselves.
| Cause even the cute/nice peoples having seemingly easy going social lifes have their own issues too.
The truth is that it's "easy" for no one. Having relationships is a struggle, it may be easier to deal with it for peeps having some genetic hacks like charisma and shit. But in the end they if one of you have is struggling in her social life it's a lot about being less self-centered.
Paying more care on the person you talk to, listening and shit like that.
| And when I say listening, it's not about peeping and stalking (just in case), but to show a keen interest in people you share with. It won't work with everyone, nor everytime but it should be a good start at least.
| >>329884 ok? It's life. You're gonna face rejection in jobs, school, college, friendships, relationships. Literally everyone has gone through some form of rejection/bad experience and if you can't get over it that's more of a you problem
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| I honestly feel like crying, so many people I know have significant others, and I'm just lonely... how do people even find dates? My shitty parents won't let me use dating apps, and I am basically a femboy submissive, i feel like no one would ever love me and I don't know what to do. Im pathetic