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[Update] A girl asked me to dance with her
| Sorry, that this ended so bring, but that's how it is
| Sorry, that this ended so bring, but that's how it is
| *boring
Idk why it posted that twice
| But I also have good news, that are actually more important:
I did pass all of my exams and I'm gonna graduate successfully
| Im glad you're going to graduate
| At least you didn't step on her toes.
| Silver lining
| It would be boring if it ended happily actually failure exits me more than success.
| Cool, do you know where she lives tho? Covering her doorstep with broken glass/substance of choice unnoticed will be easier than you might think ;)
| >>311077 thanks
>>311179 but I wouldn't really call it a failure, though since I didn't really get hurt in any way, it's neither success nor a failure, it's nothing really
>>311193 I don't hate her, I just don't have any interest in her anymore
| Actually, this is how it's done. OP didn't drop any spaghetti, didn't bend over backwards and just dropped the notion of being with this girl when she disrespected him. This is what self-respect looks like. Many people here could stand to learn a thing or two from OP.
| While I was angry at the moment it happened, I don't think I can really judge her, since we all got kinda forced into this dance and there is probably no girl in my class, that would have appreciated dancing with me
And again, I only lost interest in her, I don't hate her
Also one small, not really important, I wanna mention, is that she actually left with her friend, so that her friends dance partner had the same fate as me
| Another Update: We haf another dance practice today, she didn't show up at all! NOW I'm angry
Though I'm still not gonna be an asshole about it
| *had
| >>312878
maybe she doesnt like dancing at all and decided its not something she wants to do again and thats why she didnt show up
| But, she could have at least wrote me, that she isn't coming instead of letting me stand there watching everyone else dancing
| Also, we have to dance at the ball anyway
| I'm not into dancing either and showed up anyway
Everyone in the class does it
| Well, there's no need to try to rationalize her actions. Instead, ask her directly. You lost interest in her, so there should be nothing to be afraid of.
| Yeah, I'll probably tell her my opinion, if she even shows up next time, which will be the last practice
After that, there's only the ball and I don't wanna bring it up there, since that would be weird
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| You maybe remember the original thread a while ago, well here is the most likely last update of it
We had dance practice, everyone at our class
So I ended up dancing with her, while she didn't showed any interest during the whole thing and also just silently left in the middle of it, when we had a break
Not only do I know now, that she doesn't have any interest in me, but also that I don't want anything to do with her either anymore, because I think, what she did was kinda rude